Hey guys, I only just joined today, but I've already had the usual (expected) in-depth discussion with one of your lovely INFJ brothers. Much appreciation!
To briefly explain, I've had an odd relationship with an INFJ man, and we've got that profound soul connection. We also still have such longing for each other, but since I told him that we need some time and space (we'd both unintentionally been hurting each other through misunderstandings), we haven't taken that step to get back together.
As the same aforementioned lovely INFJ member suggested earlier, it can be a good idea to step back and work on ourselves before trying to get back together, and that is indeed what I have been doing. Though my INFJ guy is always there in the back of my mind, and I miss and love him immensely. I intend to re-connect, and I want to do so with fresh understanding.
That being said, I'd love to be aware of what aspects of INFPs in ROMANTIC relationships with INFJs is hurtful, disturbing, hard to understand, or just all-around not good for INFJs?
Is there anything you've felt or noticed that didn't work for you or upset you?
I don't intend to "change" so much as adapt and find patience through understanding, and having such ideas in mind will, I feel sure, make me more in tune with how better to communicate with him and avoid old hurts.
Many thanks, guys! I'm looking forward to any input you can give me! I know our dreaminess levels can probably make even the best people want to run headlong into a brick wall.