[INFJ] INFJ males: How do you flirt? Does this ring any bells?

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This is a discussion on INFJ males: How do you flirt? Does this ring any bells? within the INFJ Forum - The Protectors forums, part of the NF's Temperament Forum- The Dreamers category; I am an INFP and my (male) INFJ friend has started acting strangely around me, but not around any of ...

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    INFP - The Idealists

    INFJ males: How do you flirt? Does this ring any bells?

    I am an INFP and my (male) INFJ friend has started acting strangely around me, but not around any of our mutual female friends. Sometimes he'll see me in the cafeteria and sit at a different table. Sometimes we'll sit together and communicate perfectly, and other times we'll have uncomfortable "conversations" where I try to think of things to say while he appears to be deep in thought. I think probably we're both trying to think of things to say and/or overthinking the situation. Other times I'll catch him staring at me thoughtfully, usually from a distance- when he does it in the middle of a conversation it usually derails my train of thought. Does this sound familiar? If not, how do you flirt?
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    INFJ - The Protectors

    this sounds about right...at least in my opinion

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    ENFP - The Inspirers

    Are you seeing him more often than you did before? I mean, are you two having more "accidental" encounters with each other?

    You know... For INFJs, coincidences are not so coincidential...

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    INFP - The Idealists

    Hahaha ok.

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    INFP - The Idealists

    Ah... I'm actually seeing him less often this semester, but that's because our schedules are way different.

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    INFP - The Idealists

    The confusing thing is that he seems to like me, even though I know he can tell right away when I am silently judging someone. So maybe he's not sure? Who knows. And by that I mean we probably won't get together unless Fate shuts the two of us in a broken elevator for five hours straight because I don't see any other way of getting past the pre-relationship stage. Oh introversion...
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    Eyes ... eyes ... they're my tools of breaking a woman's will :p You just know when to give them a piercing look that makes 'em stop and think for a moment :D (no modesty here)

    Even at a young age (when I was about 13 or 14) - my mom used to tell me not to "look" at someone a certain way and that "she'll get some wrong ideas" ... so I naturally practiced it in the mirror for hours :D

    I'll use that look whenever I want .. and I do notice the reactions.

    There's another thing we INFJ's (at least I) do .. if there's something about a lady's dressing on a particular day that strikes out at me, I'll be sure to point it out. I love big earrings on ladies - so I'd openly compliment all my girl friends who show up wearing big earings.

    But at the same time, I'm very protective also - so as to not come across as being too obvious. The one area where an INFJ truly shines is the damsel in distress that needs saving ... oh man -- absolutely irresistible ! No matter who it is ... where she's from .. what my feelings towards her are ... if she's in trouble, I'll do anything to help her!!

    One day, I remember, I was ill in bed with a 102 degree fever (dunno what's that in celsius) and I got a call from a girl friend that she'd forgotten to fill up her gas tank ... well .. the INFJ's probably know the rest of the story without me bothering to finish it :)

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    ENFJ - The Givers


    he could just be some creepy peeping tom type no?
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    INFJ - The Protectors

    Quote Originally Posted by original_jawz View Post
    One day, I remember, I was ill in bed with a 102 degree fever (dunno what's that in celsius) and I got a call
    I finished the rest around right here
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    INFP - The Idealists

    Hahahaha that is classic INFJ behavior. And the whole post was super helpful, thank you. That reminds me that I have noticed that "he" enjoys to hold doors open for me, etc., and seems very happy when I thank him.
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