This is a discussion on The Venting Thread for INFJs within the INFJ Forum - The Protectors forums, part of the NF's Temperament Forum- The Dreamers category; Originally Posted by Epimer I'm in a bit of a sad mood. I don't know why. I'm probably just tired ...
All I can significantly remember about past events are the feelings associated with them. It bugs me because I don't remember some of the nicest things people have done for me until I am reminded of them from another INFJ on PerC's experiences or through talking about it with someone else, jogging my memory.
I hate it when parents point out that their kid is as tall or is almost as tall as me as if they've accomplished some great feat. I'm 5'1"...lol I feel insecure about my height enough already. And then when they further humiliate me by making us stand next to each other so they can measure. Just stop lol. I also hate it when a girl who is of average height starts complaining about how short she is right in front of me. Um hello, I'm standing here....
"Oh, I didn't see you there." :P It's like when a skinny person complains about how "fat" they are in front of an overweight person except that is much worse in my opinion. Just stop talking.
I just wanted to make a big shout-out to all those people who have told straight-up lies to me and caused me lasting pain and embarrassment for it, when I made the effort to believe them because I assumed they were goodhearted, not malicious people. Ahem:
...That is all.
I really don't understand SFJ parents...
In theory, they want you to be independent, yet any attempts you make at being independent they are mad about because they only want you to do and support you in what THEY want you to do. It's like "Well, I'm going to try to control you now for the rest of your life, yet I'm pissed when you make a decision that is going to cut the embillical cord".
Then what amazes me is if I vent to a SFJ friend they completely understand my point of view because they've felt the same way with their SFJ parent. But what I don't understand at all is how those SFJ friends of mine don't make the connection in how THEY should change THEIR OWN way of handling others/parenting. "I don't like the way my parents handled me, yet I'm not going to change it and continue to do the same thing myself and then be amazed 15 years later when I don't know how I turned into my mother."
This guy has done nothing wrong, providing links is not illegal and as the previous case that FACT has tired to bring, they will lose this one as well. Bit me FACT! Below is a snippet from torrentfreak.com.
The popular video streaming site “Fast Pass TV” shut down earlier this week following the arrest of one of the site’s alleged operators. The site itself didn’t host any copyrighted content but indexed videos hosted on third-party sites. The operator has been released on bail pending inquiries.
For quite a few years the Hollywood-funded Federation Against Copyright Theft (FACT) has been tipping-off the UK police on the activities of file-sharing websites and their operators.
This has resulted in the arrests of several site admins including those from TV-Links and BitTorrent site FileSoup.
A few days ago a FACT investigation led to another arrest. A 26-year old man was arrested Wednesday with police reportedly seizing £83,000 and computer equipment following a raid in Derry, Northern Ireland.
3 generations of my mothers side of my family have had people who have "left" the family...or rather will be.
My uncle once removed
and soon to be me if things dont change
what i hate is i will follow the same actions as my mother *sighs* i hate that so much
felt good to get that off my chest
I hate it when you listen to problem after problem of someone and then after been kept up for 2 weeks straight from people wanting to kill themselves that person (not the suicidal one) has the audacity to take offence because you voice carried some tension when you talked to them so therefore you must be annoyed with them for no particular reason and therefore cut you off completely!! Im sorry to break it to you guys but INFJ's have bad days to...