Well this post has been covered before and the motivations are obvious (probably). It seems the easiest way to run across INFJ's honestly is through the internet; it isn't a natural interaction so I wanted to find out how to run across you guys "naturally" and how to increase the odds. Quite frankly I am looking for an INFJ friend or mate and I guess I need to have a sense of hope in doing so. I have run across 5 INFJ's confirmed in the last 3 years "naturally" 3 of which I pursued only to find out they were already engaged/courting; seems you guys go off of the market quickly and are in high demand as well as in short supply! Another I ran into I had a relationship that was over a long distance that didn't work out ... So if I could find some surefire ways of running into you guys that would be most helpful! Would love to know habits and what you do when you do get out and about. It really seems like a 1 in a 200 shot of meeting one of you guys; at the same time once you do meet one it hard to find that it will work out. Probabilities don't seem very high based on many factors: your rarity, age, attraction etc... Thanks in advance for any replies!