Hello fellow INFJs :wink:
I've been passively reading for the past 3 days, and been absolutely amazed from the amount of clones I got here :tongue:
Well, I felt like coming forward and write for the first time, and get some advice on a major problem I'm having in the 'love' area.
Short background to match to the content - I'm 23 years old, INFJ with 100% introversion, and pretty much awesome like any of you guys. :crazy:
Relationships. Never had one. Couldn't make it happen. That's a meteor crash hole size burden in my life, and the answer to the problem yet to be found. At times I thought that the main problem was probably... me. However, at a certain point I came to realize that my way of doing it was just plain wrong. Well, in my head it had perfect sense, but you know how it is. That didn't help me much though, since I still don't know the right way to make it happen :sad:
It's pretty hard as it is to find a proper match for us lunatics :laughing:, so on top of that, all the introversion part, the small friends circle that leads to less social interactions, the awful small-talks part, and all the pre-games involved makes me just go Blahhhhh.
How a male INFJ find a partner? I mean, we're so bad at being socially active, and most people can't understand us, and we're too freaking nice when it comes to the opposite gender! Or is it just me and not an INFJ thing, I don't know... Nice guys DO come last. :sad:
lol, do you also find yourself writing for an hour something that eventually you decided to delete since it went out of context? :tongue:
Just deleted 2 paragraphs related to some INFJ things I wanted to share.. but since this topic is quite important I wanted to focus solely on that :happy:
Your help is much appreciated guys!
And btw, English isn't my primary language, so don't go too hard on my writing
P.S
WOW, that's alot of emoticons.
I've been passively reading for the past 3 days, and been absolutely amazed from the amount of clones I got here :tongue:
Well, I felt like coming forward and write for the first time, and get some advice on a major problem I'm having in the 'love' area.
Short background to match to the content - I'm 23 years old, INFJ with 100% introversion, and pretty much awesome like any of you guys. :crazy:
Relationships. Never had one. Couldn't make it happen. That's a meteor crash hole size burden in my life, and the answer to the problem yet to be found. At times I thought that the main problem was probably... me. However, at a certain point I came to realize that my way of doing it was just plain wrong. Well, in my head it had perfect sense, but you know how it is. That didn't help me much though, since I still don't know the right way to make it happen :sad:
It's pretty hard as it is to find a proper match for us lunatics :laughing:, so on top of that, all the introversion part, the small friends circle that leads to less social interactions, the awful small-talks part, and all the pre-games involved makes me just go Blahhhhh.
How a male INFJ find a partner? I mean, we're so bad at being socially active, and most people can't understand us, and we're too freaking nice when it comes to the opposite gender! Or is it just me and not an INFJ thing, I don't know... Nice guys DO come last. :sad:
lol, do you also find yourself writing for an hour something that eventually you decided to delete since it went out of context? :tongue:
Just deleted 2 paragraphs related to some INFJ things I wanted to share.. but since this topic is quite important I wanted to focus solely on that :happy:
Your help is much appreciated guys!
And btw, English isn't my primary language, so don't go too hard on my writing
P.S
WOW, that's alot of emoticons.