I've developed a shame-based personality over time and I think a major part of it is due to my slow processing -- almost inaccessible Introverted Feeling function.
It's not only about having a hard time knowing what I feel, but feeling deeply divided as well. My therapist would start off every session asking me how I felt about this or that and I would draw blanks each time...
I also find that when I'm in the midst of some kind of heated conflict with someone, my Introverted Feeling button gets stuck, so that I don't know what to answer back in a moment when I should be defending myself. I get the answers much later when the conflict is long past.
Can anyone relate to this? Why is it I feel so lost in this area of my being?