Even before i know their types, i can always peg infjs because i'm so fucking attracted to them (moth to light kind of thing). Earlier in the semester, i was introduced to this wonderful guy. made him take the test to prove myself right (infj). right off the bat, he started telling me about his depression and loneliness, and the more we've gotten to know each other, the more he's divulged. partly bc, like i said, i'm obsessed with you guys and dig it out of you any way i can. partly probably bc he's genuinely lonely. and he doesn't really understand what peole to try and be personal with, and what people not to. (he's slightly? autistic, self-admittedly)
so how do you tell if an infj likes you or just likes not being lonely? how do i tell if he likes likes me, or likes the attention i give him?
in person he's endearing and warm and gives me these ridiculous googly-eyes like we've been married two months, but he's only initiated hanging out once (at the beginning). i asked him if i scared him, bc of how intense i am, he said no, but he admitted that he's bad at distancing himself from new friends bc he's used to people doing that to him (so it's a defense mechanism, to fight that blinding infatuation).
i could go on and on. i'm smitten. i adore him. he's warm, he's kind, i want to protect him, i want him to get to know me, i want to have his babies. ok but seriously i really like him.
oh i almost forgot - he said he definitely wants to be friends, and he called me very pretty in spanish, and we're pretty sexually flirty
edit 2 - and ive caught him staring at me, checking me out, and darting his gaze to my lips