I've no idea the type that I should be looking for now.
Loads of types "like" me (as a 'cool chick' and a friend and someone smart and interesting to talk to) but not romantically and I'm wondering, is there a type out there that thinks INFPs are sexy?? Or are we just too damned "nice" (blah) to be seen as sexy?
INFP women, what type did you marry? What do you love about them and what do they love about you?
How is the 'connection'?
What's got me rather bothered lately is the realization of how I appear to others -- as someone who "presents a calm, pleasant face to the world and who has 'simple' desires" and that they don't see the intensity in me and that would in large part be my own fault I suppose since I don't like to verbalize my deepest emotions or things that are too close to my heart and when I have with family members or a close friend or two, I've felt they've seen this as a weakness.
When I think of the kind of man I should look for, well, I'm drawing a blank and losing hope that such a man exists -- that if he does exist he would be interested in me.