This is a discussion on Showing some love for the INFPs within the INFP Forum - The Idealists forums, part of the NF's Temperament Forum- The Dreamers category; Originally Posted by dlb Thank you! You guys are super awesome too :) Thanks for being you! When you say ...
I don't understand why people don't like us. Is it the Fi-Ne? Are we constantly saying stuff that makes them uncomfortable or are we shaking up their world view? I don't get it. I always feel like I am never saying or doing the right thing.
INFP > ENFP. ENFPs always change their goal posts and are so restless they are tiring. You guys are so fixed on values that I know you'd be there where I left you the day before pursuing the same result.
In an hypothetical relationship, we'd have a few Fe Fi clashes, but that won't be a problem if we're both grown up and understand that Fi or Fe don't represent perfection and that both have blind spots. I can see debating and deciding successfully with an INFP about anything. And the sexeh times would probably be A+ coz INFJ and INFPs can get so incredibly creative together.
Hello hello! ♥
Aah gosh;; It's been a little bit of a long time since I last wrote a post about my love for INFPs, so instead of copy+paste I'll just think up what I can off the top of my noggin; I've been with my INFP for a little over 4 years now, and surprisingly, he hasn't changed one bit~ ♥ He's easily the most loving person in my life -- how do you guys have so much love inside you!? Your poor little hearts must be bursting all the time, the amount of compassion seriously astounds me!♡ How patient and understanding you are with others.Not quick to judge in the least, Fi + Ne makes a lovely combination in truly looking @ a person, and thinking to oneself, "How did they get into this situation? What are they really feeling?" Can be very selfless, in giving their time and a listening ear to others. You get the feeling that they are actually listening to you; there's a sincerity in their actions that can't be ignored. Before looking down @ someone for who they are, or where they are @ in their life, you pause to put yourself in their shoes and imagine all the sorts of things that could be going on. When I think of INFP, I think of the word sonder. Never quick to hurt or place judgement on others, but instead helping outsiders to realize what could be happening with some poor individual, whom is only as human as the rest of us.♡ A childlike wonder and sense of humor too pure for this world.Although I'm unable to truly grasp your sense of imagination, I greatly admire the way you think; able to find happiness in everything around you and beyond. This naive nature of yours is simply adorable, and something you should never let go of no matter how many times others may say so;; (Just don't ever forget to bring along a sidekick as to not get hurt or caught up in life's little mishaps~) You really do see the world in a way that others don't, and it's a beautiful quality to have. Don't ever feel discouraged -- continue to share with the rest of us all the big and little things you see; the ideas and connections. Your happiness is contagious, and although the world is unable to have your beautiful mind, we really wish we do.♡ The depth and meaning behind your thoughts, actions and feelings.You are the last to say or do something without thinking about it first. You know yourself better than anyone else does, and have the uncanny ability to really zero-in on something, and identify how it fits with everything else like a puzzle -- if it's meant to be, or something that should be discarded. There's so much passion within you, how much you believe in something -- right or wrong. You're not afraid to fight, to swim against the current. There's always a reason for everything you say and do, you don't take life or people lightly. There's a fire within that never goes out, I never wish for it to.
Although you are going to have those moments, when you feel alone. Like no one cares. And there's no one there for you. The world would truly be @ such a loss without you; all the things you can do for humanity, even simply those closest to you. You are a beam of light in many dark lives, a bundle of endless possibilities that can and will forever shape reality around you. It's like I tell the love of my life every day, "Where would I be without you?"
Please don't ever leave us, INFP. The earth will forever mourn your existence once you're gone, there's so much beauty -- inside you, and what you bring to the rest of us.
Well thanks INTP Chickin friend. I like you too. I like that cat also. What a cutie.
I really appreciate especially how this was very sweet and unexpected but also grounded and rational in INTP fashion. Some other appreciate-an-INFP threads are also very kind but are sort of candy floss sweet, fluff and not really logic, so this is a very satisfying read. Thanks for being such an awesome INTP, you do your species proud. ;)
Thank you dude, this means a lot! I usually feel very much isolated being the way I am in my everyday life, so seeing this made me feel a lot better today. <3
Can't hug every INFP!
This is what you do for us.
You might think you're the rabbit, but to us, you're the cat.