Everytime I see people refer to our "trust threshold" and what-not I always think they have another way in mind for us to act? Because the trust threshold and lack of initiating seems so normal to me I don't know any other way to behave. So pls like, give me an idea? Is it more normal to be completely open and trusting and initiating all the time? I mean what is it?
More on topic.
Yes I do the same thing as @neutralchaotic and because I'm so self absorbed I didn't notice it was affecting my friends until my ENTP friend just straight up said "We give you your alone time and you still treat us like shit!" and he also said "Oh wow Lord Pixel actually called ME!". Until then I just saw myself as having a passive. spectator, once in a while chime in, sort of relationship with them. I guess it means people value your friendship when they say these things.
Hm, I guess we never know when we are loved, chalk it up to Se blindspot XD!