This is a discussion on Tips for dynamics with "comfortable silences" within the INFP Forum - The Idealists forums, part of the NF's Temperament Forum- The Dreamers category; Originally Posted by entheos Guess what! You are making me uncomfortable by speaking unnecessary extra info that clearly doesn't inspire ...
Last edited by L P; 10-05-2017 at 09:02 AM.
Practice. Practice those comfortable silences. It's a skill for you, I think, because it's not a natural state of being (extroverted brain), and you are having difficulties.
For me, it comes no where near being a "skill" -- it is a natural preference.
I luv, both comfortable and uncomfortable silences - as long as someone, isn't yapping away. What I have had to learn & accept is some people, when in my presence, want to talk.
I prefer they draw pictures. Or write me a book.