I've touched on this here before but my INFP girlfriend "processes" emotional stuff so much. It's usually 1-2 days per week she's processing and on those days she doesn't text much and exhausts herself to the point of going to bed early and not wanting to phone chat (which we only do every few days anyways).
I kinda hoped the more we got to know each other, the quicker she resolves this stuff. I'm understanding her better but is there any way to speed this thing up - or would that just drive her off?
If she can process in a couple hours even would be great.