Do you find that you have to make things happen for yourself or they do not happen at all?
This might be more of the 6 in me than the INFP in me... but, usually there's just like this blank slate of where I want to go or what I want to do (who I want to BE is much, much clearer to me). Anyway, I struggle with knowing how much of the doing I am responsible for and how much will just happen by me being.
I think the "being" concept is foreign to most I know, but I think they're wrong. Lol. I really have to fight this thought because I hate laziness and that is what it seems like on the outside or could even turn into if I were to let it.
Do you think if you are becoming the person you are supposed to be that the rest of it will just work itself out?
I'm not saying that I NEVER do anything (I try to do little things all the time that are hard for me or scare me), but maybe like 20% doing (and only when I KNOW I am supposed to) and 80% being (and most of the doing has to do with being?).
Or... is this just unhealthy thinking?