I must say that was very well put.But that's what I mean, that's not good, dude. Believe me, I know full well how it feels to have someone who makes you feel great about yourself when no-one else does, and I know how it feels to fall for someone who's already in a relationship, but is hoping that this girl goes through the sadness of breaking up with the person she loves for the sake of you who she's known for one month really how you should be feeling towards someone who's given you happiness? I understand the feeling, believe me, but the mindset that must have gone into you asking this question is not a good one for her sake. If you care about her as a friend, you need to let things be. If they do break up, fine. But that'd be a horrible thing for her to have to go through and it's not something to wish upon a friend. And if not for her sake, if they never break up you could be holding your breath for something to happen forever.