Does anyone get confused as an extrovert? This guy that I'm NOT interested in dating keeps saying things that indicate romantic interest and has offered to drive us to the beach for the weekend. I for one seem a bit horrified at taking a road trip with someone I don't know very well and would want separate rooms, then I feel like the whole week of him wanting to drink/party like an extrovert. He is always talking about drinking and I think it is so incredibly annoying as hell.
Yes, I occasionally let loose, mainly when I'm stressed, I just think he totally has the wrong picture in his head of what my personality is about because he has seen me on some outgoing moments... so I find myself also pissed off that I have to explain all this shit. Would I have a good time at the beach? I don't know, maybe, but expenses add up when you are getting two hotel rooms and just think so many extroverts think others have the energy and social inclination as them. Like I would be grumpy AF if I didn't get my sleep in and then feel like the whole weekend fending off someone who might have a crush on me. STRESS.
Maybe extroverts would look different and be like, a cool, a beach weekend, and blow off someone's advancements and just go have a good time. Me = rather hellish, on top of at minimum 5 hour drive in each direction in a short time period (leave Friday, come back Sunday). What the hell am I supposed to talk about with someone who can't seem to stop talking about booze and thinks I would have fun driving around a golf cart while he played (while drinking wine, which I only really like at times with a nice meal). I'm even baffled people behave/talk like this. Am I prudish? I just think it is super unclassy. Why does one have to talk about ALCOHOL all THE TIME.