First of all, is this trait a common problem for INFPs type? (ie: "thinking too much, but then nothing, or rarely anything gets done")
It seriously starts to not only bug me, but at my current age of 30 (soon to be 31 in this August), this trait starts to frustrate and destroy my life & future..
Everytime I am even given some kind of seemingly good opportunities (usually a job, project, or business),
I just tend to blew it off, because I was thinking way too much into the "plus" and "minus" of things (while I actually already knew that almost EVERYTHING, ANYTHING will have its "plus" and "minus"!..) , and also whether I am "capable" or not!.. and as well as whether other people are right when they said "it's useless", "it's just a waste", or even when people said "yes! quick!! take that opportunity niki, you can do it, I believe!" that I unfortunately sometimes (or often!) tend to see even those 'positive' comments now as just that: a mere simple, ignorant FAKE words coming easily from mouth, often without critically examining the opportunity first if it's really doable, or not!
But, as a result, like I said above, I've almost rejected ALL good opportunities/chances (or any 'potential' jobs) that come into my life. and then, as a consequence,...NOTHING gets done. and I'm still a Nobody in this so-called "real-world".
Does any of you INFPs here also can relate?
How can I eliminate this trait?.. can I/we INFPs actually eliminate this trait,..or it's forever inherent as a 'curse' ?..