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This is a discussion on Virginity within the INFP Forum - The Idealists forums, part of the NF's Temperament Forum- The Dreamers category; i don't know how to word this but i was just wondering, how common is virginity with INFPs? i'll admit ...

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    Virginity

    i don't know how to word this but i was just wondering, how common is virginity with INFPs?
    i'll admit i'm still a virgin, hell i haven't even kissed anyone but its because i haven't felt the right connection yet.
    so how many of you are still virgins (if you don't mind me asking)
    and if you're not, do you regret it?
    i've had times when i'm in the heat of the moment and i long for affection but i stop myself because i know there isn't a deep connection.
    i try to not let friends or society pressure me into it or make me look down on myself for my virginity,
    but sometimes i do.
    for me it isn't a moral thing, i do agree with waiting till marriage for the most part but for me i think that love itself for that person would be a greater bond than vows.
    anyway i was going to make a poll but that would seem kind of smutty? yeah i think so.
    so help me if anyone posts the video for "Like a Virgin"......
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    INFP - The Idealists

    I think there's more pressure for males to lose their virginity than females. Correct me if I'm wrong. I regret losing my virginity to someone I didn't have feelings for, as there was no satisfaction for me on a physical or emotional level. Do not let yourself pressured by society to commit an act you don't want to do. I wish you the strength to keep going until you find someone worthy.

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    INFP - The Idealists

    Quote Originally Posted by AvaAdore View Post
    i don't know how to word this but i was just wondering, how common is virginity with INFPs?
    i'll admit i'm still a virgin, hell i haven't even kissed anyone but its because i haven't felt the right connection yet.
    so how many of you are still virgins (if you don't mind me asking)
    and if you're not, do you regret it?
    i've had times when i'm in the heat of the moment and i long for affection but i stop myself because i know there isn't a deep connection.
    i try to not let friends or society pressure me into it or make me look down on myself for my virginity,
    but sometimes i do.
    for me it isn't a moral thing, i do agree with waiting till marriage for the most part but for me i think that love itself for that person would be a greater bond than vows.
    anyway i was going to make a poll but that would seem kind of smutty? yeah i think so.
    so help me if anyone posts the video for "Like a Virgin"......
    My advice? Don't worry about it. You are still young, and (hopefully) you have a long life ahead of you. So just go with the flow... Anyone can lose their virginity by, say, going to a whorehouse and taking some money with them. You could do that if you wanted to, and I'm pretty sure you know that already. There would be nothing wrong with that, just like there is nothing wrong with waiting until you love someone. These days, virginity is a choice - so if you still have yours, its for a good reason. If waiting for the person you love makes you happy, then wait. From what I could see, the problem is not being virgin - the problem is not having a 'special person'. And everyone eventually finds someone. So don't worry about it.

    ... Is this post as confusing as I think it is?
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    ISTP - The Mechanics

    In high school, girls call each other sluts for everything. It's ridiculous, considering that some people are just more liberal or don't attach emotion to the act but still have their ethics straight. I regret it because the guy ended up being a JERK on top of spreading rumors about it, not because I didn't have feelings for him. I have found someone else who would be worth it, though.

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    INFP - The Idealists

    I'm 20 and still haven't done it yet, not even kissed and I feel so PROUD about it.
    Waiting for my special someone and I know it is going to be awesome

    Sex without Love is just something that doesn't exist in my dictionary. If other people really need to do it so bad then why don't they masturbate and stop wasting so much time on dating and all that drama?
    I don't know how many times my friends "fell in love" with someone the past 2 months lol maybe 5 or 6 each.

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    INFP - The Idealists

    I am 24 and still a kissless virgin. I blame my high standards. Standards which I don't really deserve, yet I can't lower them just for the sake of getting it all over with. And for some reason, neither can I find it in myself to live up to the standards I want in a woman.

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    INTJ - The Scientists

    Quote Originally Posted by Thalandor View Post
    I think there's more pressure for males to lose their virginity than females.
    THIS IS VERY TRUE!!!
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    INFP - The Idealists

    Well, that depends on how one defines "virginity", but the first time I had sex with a partner was really just a few months ago. It was with my first girlfriend, whom I loved so very much in every way at the time. I was 19, BTW. Yeah. I waited a long time for it, because I wanted it to be a decision I could be proud of, and I think I did alright with that. In fact, sex was really great in that relationship - it made me feel closer to her, to the earth, to everyone and everything and to some higher power. It was pretty literally divine.

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    ISFJ - The Nurturers

    Find a girl right now and kiss her! This is starting to get ridiculous.

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    ENFJ - The Givers

    yeah i'm a virgin-i used to be not so happy about that but now i'm sorta glad
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