Hello all you wonderful INFPs,
I've noticed, from real life observation and especially from recent personality forum browsing that INTPs and INFPs are often attracted and fascinated by one another -- however that this combination rarely works out. The INFP will often leave the relationship heartbroken and disillusioned. The INTP will probably leave confused and hateful.
When I've read INFP descriptions about INTPs ultimate failings, I find them particularly cutting. Firstly, because they are often very accurate. Secondly, I believe that INFPs really are the only type of girl that I have ever fallen love with, and ever will. I've had fun relationships with other types, but ... INFPs are just a completely different caliber to me.They stir a powerful irrational chord in me. So it strikes me as tragic that it seems to rarely work. I imagine it is far more tragic for you guys with your Fi stewing in hurt.
I can't resist idealizing that I will find an INFP, and everything will be sublime and wonderful. I'm starting to suspect this is dangerous.
So, any insights into the combination are welcome.
Does what I'm saying ring true? Why/not, do you think?
Are there any positive stories of INFPs with INTPs?
How do you guys find us as friends? etc. etc.