What are your views on them? How do you get along with them?
I'm just out of a serious relationship with one. The esfj I was dating was cold, controlling, manipulative, an annoying social butterfly, needed more attention than you're average person, hid all her emotions when it came to serious things but then she'd cry over something stupid and she'd never bloody stop, she was extremely insecure, she acts and dresses and listens to the same music as everyone else, she's irrational, illogical, unfaithful, a coward (broke up over text), had no motivation or dreams, she was so arrogant and self righteous, she couldn't be wrong even if you gave her enough proof and everyone agreed with you (if everyone agreed with what I was saying or whatever the situation was they were still all wrong and just ganging up on her). She just couldn't make or take a proper argument but she'd always win because of her stubbornness, she wouldn't talk about her problems and let me help her with anything, she was so secretive, she relied on me too much. She'd ignore me in front of our friends and treat me like I was nothing, but then when we were alone I was her everything again.
Are other esfjs like this or is she just unhealthy? Do intjs and esfjs usually get along?
Oh and btw I knew her type because we did the actual one in school with our career counselor. She got esfj, although I though she was an esfp or enfp lol. But just in case, yeah I know what her type is.