Be honest INTJs; do you enjoy doing J stuff? Planning ahead, making checklists, sending reminders? Adulting?
Do you enjoy that role in your relationships?
I honestly hate it. I hate it all. Lol.
I'm trying to figure out if I am actually the most J person in the room - which is always how I test. Or if I just learned that skill, to fill a need over time in my personal relationships and work relationships with people who are less willing or able to reach outside their comfort zone than I am.