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This is a discussion on Are These Signs Of An INTJ Being Interested? within the INTJ Forum - The Scientists forums, part of the NT's Temperament Forum- The Intellects category; Originally Posted by ponpiri He could. Although I do all of these things with friends, including telling them they're attractive ...

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    Quote Originally Posted by ponpiri View Post
    He could. Although I do all of these things with friends, including telling them they're attractive if they are handsome/pretty. A good relationship starts with friendship, so the person probably wouldn't be able to tell that I'm romantically interested if I don't say anything.
    Jeez, so how am I meant to know? Aside from asking and making things more awkward than they already are between two introverted thinking types?

  2. #12
    INTJ

    Quote Originally Posted by WintersFlame View Post
    Lol, You just answered my question with another question.
    Honestly as an INTJ I wouldn't bother doing all that stuff to someone that I am not interested in ..So I can say for sure that he is deeply interested in you.But I am just not sure if it's romantic interest

  3. #13

    Quote Originally Posted by WintersFlame View Post
    Jeez, so how am I meant to know? Aside from asking and making things more awkward than they already are between two introverted thinking types?
    I don't expect anyone to know how I feel. If I want them to know, I'll tell them.
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  4. #14

    Quote Originally Posted by ArcturusMengsk View Post
    I am going to check the box probably interested in more than friendship.
    Are you? If so, you mention he stands close to you yet no touching, would you consider breaking the touch barrier a little and see how it goes? Or pushing it a little further in some other "safe" way? Whatever information you get from this might be more relevant than my opinion about a guy that I ultimately do not know.
    Whenever I think of touching, I think of it as being either flirtatious or overly affectionate and I just don't see him as being open with his feelings in that kind of way...Is that what you mean though?

  5. #15

    I'm not intj but from what i observed, don't bother to read them. Not all intjs are the same. Some will do the list above because they're so comfortable with the person and regarded them as friends but be very so awkward with their romantic interest.

    I think if they like you enough and are serious enough they will ask you / tell you directly


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  6. #16

    Quote Originally Posted by WintersFlame View Post
    Is that a .... yes?
    It is a possibility. If he is interested, he will make time, and he won't even bother. It could be he finds you as a friend. It could be he finds you attractive. I know it isn't what you want to hear, but it is the truth. You get to know him, share some interests he will open up more. My wife will tell you I was a hard individual to figure out. Still am. She just learned how to identify specific cues to know if I am angry, happy, sad, etc. But she does know if she wants something, or has a problem, even if she doesn't tell me, I solve it. For example, she goes to nursing school, hates traffic, I found a route that was shorter and less traffic for her. It took her a while to realize I heard her frustration and took time to solve it rather than tell her I was or why I did. I guess that is another indicator. INTJs, if they love someone, they ten to solve that person's problems and show, in a strange way, they care and support that person.

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    INTJ - The Scientists

    That all sounds like normal INTJ behavior in platonic friendships. The best way to find out is to ask; that's why someone responded with "probably"; we don't know. They could be signs of interest, but I'm more of the mind that INTJs don't give any signs; we just tell you if we are when we're ready to. We are direct and deliberate so that there are no misunderstandings. Send him this thread from you about him; he should appreciate someone else wanting resolve/to know something/to not have to guess and or ask or rely on what strangers say.
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  8. #18
    ISFJ

    I'm gonna sound like a broken record and/or parrot and say it looks like they see you as a really close friend. But don't despair, INTJ's make pretty good friends! Even if we don't always understand each other
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  9. #19

    Quote Originally Posted by WintersFlame View Post
    Ive made a checklist.
    Please check "X" the box if you've noticed yourself do these things when interested in a friend or if you generally think these are signs of an INTJ being interested. You guys are good at hiding how you feel so its been hard for me to read this situation.

    Avocado, Bell Peppers, Olive Oil (&) Hummus [XxX]
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  10. #20
    INTJ - The Scientists

    Playful Teasing []

    Goofing Around/ Joking [ ]

    Doing Little Favors [X]

    Inviting To Places/ Activities [ ]

    Admitting To Finding You Attractive [ ]

    "You & Me" Mentality (e.g. "Smart like you and me", "we're close friends", "we dont talk about superficial things" ) [ ]

    Talks About Feelings [ ]

    Wants You To Get Deep [X]

    Looking Over At What You're Doing [X]

    Wants You To Speak More [X]

    Touches Your Stuff [ ]

    Standing Too Close [ ]

    Complimenting Personality [X]

    Asks About Your Thoughts Around Relationships [ ]

    Intense/ Strong Eye Contact [X]

    In Group Conversations, Directs Eye Contact Towards Person Of Interest Despite Them Not Having Initated Or Involved [X]

    These are just signs of being friends [ ]

    I would have ticked the others if I was already in a relationship, or at least dating the person. but if I'm dating the person, they would know I'm dating them, because I told them so.


     
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