INTJ female here in desperate need of how to get over a crush for a male ESTJ.
To provide you with some backgroud of how I got into this unfortunate situation - I was working away, minding my own business and this ESTJ male decided to make and hold eye contact with me and it all went down hill from there. How is it possible for someone to feel so much chemistry and sexual tension and for it to be one-sided? Surely that is not possible - it just does not make sense!
I have not approached him or told him my feelings about him, but we work very closely together and I have given him my attention and even started conversations with him about things OTHER than work - this is HUGE and I feel like its a big sign that I like him.
The relationship will never work but the chemisty and sexual tension is so stong it is driving me crazy. I need to cut out the distractions so I can get back to work.
Give me all your tips on how I can get get over this crush PLEASE and I will forever be in your debt.