I’ve been posting a lot on this forum lately about a girl I like, and today I finally got the courage to ask her out. Well, not really ask her out because I was trying to be less subtle. But once again, I’m even more confused than at the beginning.
Okay, so today was basically me figuring out whether to ext this girl or not, until I finally gathered the courage earlier today. I asked her: “Hey, do you wanna come with me to the cinema tonight; they finally show a good move? (smiley)”. And after four minutes she replied: “Heyyy, I can’t, I have religious education at 6:30, and later I need to continue studying for the chemistry test because otherwise I’m gonna fail (facepalm)(grinning face)”. Btw, with religious education (idk how to call it), it’s like a Catholic thing where you learn more about the faith I think; I’m not sure because I’ve never gone to that.
Now I need help from my fellow INTJ’s to know wtf happened. I thought she was interested because of various of signals, but now I’m confused... Did she politely reject me, or is she really busy? I mean, I basically asked her this night (only this night), and if she is busy, she still couldn’t have offered another date since they only show the movie once. Or am I wrong?