I found this thread in the ISFP forum and really enjoyed it. It probably resonates with my right now because this is something that's been on my mind a lot lately.
I would like to propose the same question in the INTJ forum (of course, all types welcome):
What is your dream? It can be something attainable, goals you're actively working towards, or lean more towards fantasy.
Married to a kind, intelligent man who loves cleaning in a nonjudgmental way. Maybe one more child.
A nice 1,800-2,200ish sf house with a lot of space between neighbors but a populated town/small city within 30 minutes. Roomy, modern kitchen, a library with one of those rolling ladders, comfy movie watching setup, lots of windows. Water view (probably a lake). Catio. Guest area is either a basement or detached from the main house.
Self-employed maybe running a bakery or doing something artistic or something like computer repair. One nice vacation a year (i.e. need a passport) and a lot of weekend trips. Decent amount of play money after having amply saved. Excellent health insurance.
Time and energy to devote to playing hockey again, reading, leisure baking, calligraphy.
Just a lot of freedom/lack of burden in every sense.