This is a discussion on Why are the ENFPs the most frequent types of extroverts to lurk the INTJ threads? within the INTJ Forum - The Scientists forums, part of the NT's Temperament Forum- The Intellects category; Originally Posted by Swede Sounds familiar, that is why I end up doing a lot of vendor communication & young ...
Because you guys are just so entertaining! The majority of you are being serious or have the best dark sense of humor,... And I find myself cracking up the entire time.
i guess it depends on what stimulates you.Without them asking questions and engaging us, this place would be far less intellectually stimulating.
@Swede - Interesting. I was writing from a viewpoint of sarcasm and generalization since saving someone from their own personality isn’t something that makes sense to me, but yes, I am attracted to the idea of people who usually keep to themselves opening up to me. Not necessarily even introverts, but just people who are know how to keep to themselves. Privacy is such a turn on.
I guess that also ties into what @FePa and @PoppaX were saying. I’ve been the centre of attention before and I don’t know how to handle it. My close INFJ friend is better at handling that than I am, and she’s definitely an introvert. I tend to spill my guts to people I barely know, but she's pretty controlled and calculated, which is something I admire. Also, she’s one of the most popular kids in her school, not because she parties a lot or does the extrovert thing that’s supposed to make you popular, but because she’s got a quiet, steely confidence to her that someone more extroverted probably wouldn’t exude. On the (increasingly frequent) occasions that she does let her guard down, I do kind of feel like I’ve been let in on some kind of intimate secret.
Because I give them *what they want*
I'm lurking here because my husband is INTJ and I want to know you guys more so I could understand him better ( I even helped him to understand himself better with some advices and discussions on this board ;-)) So thank you!
But no I don't fancy INTJs as a whole at all. I knew several INTJs girls with whom I ended friendships.
Actually I think you may fancy that we fancy you ;-). It may be true here because of all the Keirsey theories but not in real life. IMO, ENFPs who are not aware of MBTI, especially in real life, are social butterflies who often goes out with other E and/or F types.
Younger ENFPs may also like the confidence of the INTJs, because he/she could count on the INTJ. Younger ENFPs can see them as really complementary. I liked IXXJs men a lot when I was younger, but with age, we know that confidence comes only from the inside. And being in couple with a confident INTJ will not make yourself confident.
Wait a minute. Brains?!? Oh no... I thought they were foolish. "Why are so many people obsessed with zombies," I said. "Such a silly fascination," I said.
Now I see it before my very eyes! Please don't eat those. I use them to see things.
HIDE THE WOMEN AND THE CHILDREN. CALL SCOTLAND YARD. RUN FOR YOUR LIVES!
OR MAYBE... oops, still shouting. OR maybe.. ok, still shouting a bit there, my bad. Kinda hard to turn off. Ehem, HARUMPH. OK.
Or maybe, we could coexist with the zombies. We could have our womenz breed with them and have little biracial zombie babies. It would be PERFECT! The human race will be saved! Heehee!
Oh no... what's that sou-
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