Originally Posted by sybilthis. about sixty-nine thousand times this. experiencing this effect in an area that is supposedly 'for' my own type brings it over into the area of my mind where i keep my definition of manners. i don't respect or appreciate anyone who wanders into a different community's turf and makes it overwhelmingly all about them and their own interest levels, with nothing but a merry cry of 'well, just don't listen then!' if some of the locals complain. as if it was rude of them to object.Otherwise, it feels like somebody holding me down and displacing all my thoughts with Styrofoam peanuts.
i've noticed a couple things too, which makes the whole thing at least a bit interesting on the sociological front:
a) hell of a lot of enfp women in here, it seems like.
b) hell of a lot more intj women than men who seem unimpressed by the charm
c) wonder what would happen in enfp-world if all the fans moved the love-fest into that turf for a change, and how the denizens there would react.