fair enough, but not 'as a weapon' under those circs, i bet.I still rely heavily on sarcasm but normally reserved for those I trust.
that sort of summarizes my objection, actually. it's not the traits themselves. it's more this idea that we even bother to go around weaponizing any aspect of who we are that imo is not accurate about intjs in general. similar to what you say of yourself, i find most of us are just trying to find our own personal ways we can be in the world.