Extremely true for me. There has been a couple of times where i left someone completely and i never saw how i could return.
No. Once trust is broken, it can never be fixed.
The only way a person can redeem themselves is to prove themselves otherwise - without the need to try so hard of course. I don't know if this is a good or bad thing, but so far, no one tried, and it's better this way.
Btw, i don't think you're off topic now. Anyone can ask any question. The point of this thread is to get off the stereotypes anyways.
Thank you.
Just a random scenario: So lets say you and I are friends, close friends...AW..how sweet:blushed:
I was really hurt in a past relationship. I brought some of that shame and guilt to our friendship. Maybe having outburst in conversations that were close to my heart, or not taking into consideration that our friendship can't be compared to past experiences. I made you angry, said things i didn't mean. I have trust issues, not necessarily with you, although i take all this issues out on you. You get fed up with me and walk away from the friendship, rightfully so. So now the door is slammed.
I feel bad and sad i couldn't communicate with you effectively. I wasn't in a good place emotionally .
Does the door still remain slammed if i'm accountable and take responsibility for my actions ?
I read this on a thread in another forum. I didn't see any real responses that answered the question.
Thanks for answering btw, and the warm response with changing the subject.