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#1 · (Edited)
There's a thread like this in the ESTJ forum, and I thought it would be beneficial here. It might help clear up some preconceived notions and stereotypes of INTJ's while also reducing some unnecessary threads.

So here, any type can ask a question. Any INTJ can answer.

But remember, we are people too. :mellow: We eat, sleep, and piss like everyone else.

So ask away!
 
#1,009 ·
Who/What do you fear the most?


Failure.

Fear.
Failure brought about by fear.

Consonance coinc
idental...crap! >.<
 
#1,010 ·
When is the cheapest/best time to buy/build a computer? I would assume November/December when Christmas specials are running, but thought I'd ask in case there's a better time between now and then.
 
#1,011 ·
When is the cheapest/best time to buy/build a computer? I would assume November/December when Christmas specials are running, but thought I'd ask in case there's a better time between now and then.
I would have said last month, actually. Just after school is out, possibly. Or find a specific model and wait for the next model to be released. Or, EBay. You can get pretty good deals on eBay year round, if you are patient enough to wait for one.
 
#1,012 ·
When is the cheapest/best time to buy/build a computer? I would assume November/December when Christmas specials are running, but thought I'd ask in case there's a better time between now and then.
mid summer of late summer when they have to make good offers to draw in customers, and have not upped the prices for holidays to make post holiday discounts seem larger.
 
#1,017 ·
Ok You INTJ's get a load of this one, and please try to give practical and useful advice, as I already know the answer and outcome I will tell you if its on par. :p

met an ENFJ, great personality, getting to know each other. Awesome, one problem, she's about 10 cm taller than me, and probably another 6 cm with heels on. What should I do about this? Should I go get limb extension surgery, go to therapy and counselling to overcome my own insecurities, how does a shorter guy, date a girl who is substantially taller.

Personal experiences and recounts appreciated! :D
 
#1,018 ·
how does a shorter guy, date a girl who is substantially taller?
By not caring that you're a shorter guy dating a girl who is substantially taller.

If she's dating you, odds are she think you're a really cool guy (despite you being a midget). So why the hell should something as trivial as height matter?

Does she want her kids to grow up to be basketballers?
God damn...


[This has been a demonstration on INTJs giving emotional advice]
 
#1,019 ·
By not caring that you're a shorter guy dating a girl who is substantially taller.

If she's dating you, odds are she think you're a really cool guy (despite you being a midget). So why the hell should something as trivial as height matter?

Does she want her kids to grow up to be basketballers?
God damn...


[This has been a demonstration on INTJs giving emotional advice]
Hahaha, very well done. A first attempt too, I guess its as practical as it gets. Wasn't very emotionally supportive, because as freaking obvious as it is, its another matter to get that niggling little voice out of your head.
 
#1,020 ·
Ok You INTJ's get a load of this one, and please try to give practical and useful advice, as I already know the answer and outcome I will tell you if its on par. :p

met an ENFJ, great personality, getting to know each other. Awesome, one problem, she's about 10 cm taller than me, and probably another 6 cm with heels on. What should I do about this? Should I go get limb extension surgery, go to therapy and counselling to overcome my own insecurities, how does a shorter guy, date a girl who is substantially taller.

Personal experiences and recounts appreciated! :D
I went out with a guy who was 7 inches shorter than me. Another was 3 inches shorter. The only time it was noticeable was when we went out and everyone else would either comment or look. Meh.....who cares.....you are the same height lying down and I bet she will be damn handy for those top cupboards. Enjoy the fact that she isn't a shallow tart who says "oh my I could never be with a man shorter than me". You are very fortunate indeed.
 
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