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This is a discussion on Can an INTJ be warm hearted and humorous? within the INTJ Forum - The Scientists forums, part of the NT's Temperament Forum- The Intellects category; He's probably just mature and well-rounded. I would say I'm pretty warm and sensitive. I'd also echo the statements about ...

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    INTJ - The Scientists

    He's probably just mature and well-rounded. I would say I'm pretty warm and sensitive. I'd also echo the statements about familiar people. To outsiders, I'm closed off. He's probably a lot warmer with close family and friends.

    Also, the older I find I've got, the more I accept that I'm not a genius or anything like that, which I used to think as a kid. This may explain why your dad is a little more cautious in his abilities - life experience. Compared to a lot of other INTJs, I seem to be a lot less confident, so I don't think the 'fear' that you describe is that unusual.
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    Quote Originally Posted by lib View Post
    The reason INTJs are often seen as scary is their lack of facial expression (death stare) which to people who don't know them equals scary/evil.
    I've come across three persons on PerC whom I thought were xxFJ and they turned out to be INTP. I guess it would be the same with INTJs using Fi (don't know much about this) and appear to be xxFP. It's a matter of using tertiary/inferior functions.
    I had someone tell me once my death stare looked like a Baader-Meinhof Gang mugshot....but I think I am fairly warm and humorous. Really. I wasn't when I was younger - it was all arrogance, contempt and attitude. Maybe it is an age thing.

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    INTJ - The Scientists

    I can be humorous. I exercise a lot of stealth humor as well.
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    INTJ - The Scientists

    If you're "in" with me and I feel like the relationship warrants it, I can be very affectionate and caring. As with Jack Byrnes, this "circle of trust" is quite small.

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    INTP - The Thinkers

    yeah definitely, INTJs will kick ass all across the board, even when it comes to emotional matters

    INTJs are just that good
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    INTJ - The Scientists

    Warm hearted? Only towards a handful of select, highly trusted, highly valued people. Humorous? It's a natural quality.
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    INTJ - The Scientists

    I am warm hearted but no matter how hard i try i fail to show it , as for humorous the only time i appear to be humorous is when i'm in what i consider it to be an uneasy situation for me or if i was going through a mild depression, i think it's my way of hiding my unease or depression of course if i was going through a major depression phase i keep to my self and as result appear to be angry but if things are not very serious i don't want people to know i'm unhappy. However when i say humorous it's a relative term, there's a difference between what i consider it to be humorous and what other people do ...
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    Quote Originally Posted by Einsteinette View Post
    However when i say humorous it's a relative term, there's a difference between what i consider it to be humorous and what other people do ...
    This is probably a big one for most INTJs. Not everyone appreciates ironic or sarcastic or bone dry humor.
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    INTJ - The Scientists

    Quote Originally Posted by Napoleptic View Post
    This is probably a big one for most INTJs. Not everyone appreciates ironic or sarcastic or bone dry humor.
    Really? Everyone I know does. [Then again, I rarely leave my house, so that's not a lot of people...]
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    INTJ - The Scientists

    Yeah i can relate to alot of this. I think I'm pretty warm hearted. In fact my class mates voted me most friendly my senior year of high school (who knew). But I will say this was after 4 years of knowing alot of them. Once I sort of know what to expect from the people around me, I'm can be pretty charismatic, charming, humorous ect. It is a natural quality when it makes "logical sense" to use it. After I become friends with someone, it's logical to be humorous/charming with them as opposed to being super friendly with everyone I meet. Unless of course that was my objective for that situation. Still that would take alot of energy.
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