I have been talking/hanging out to an INTJ guy for about 5 months now. We use text about every day. When hung out he always paid. We only hung out 4 times due to living a few hours from each other. We are both about to graduate and may not end up in the same place after graduation. I asked him where he saw this going and he responded that he did not know. He said that he is not ready for a relationship. What does this mean? Is he really not ready for a relationship or does he just not like me?