This is a discussion on Photos of the INTJs **Stay on topic** within the INTJ Forum - The Scientists forums, part of the NT's Temperament Forum- The Intellects category; Originally Posted by Mars you would be much much more hansome with short hair. But ...even then, you still are. ...
I prefer darker running colors but I have had a problem with Deer Fly's. So I did some googling and lo-and-behold, Deer Fly's don't like light or bright colors. So this is my new running outfit. Problem is that while its great as Deer Fly repellent it is also great as a chick repellent, but I look FABULOUS!
>.> Ok...so what about attractive in terms of personality traits? Intelligence and physical appearance aside, there are a whole lot of other traits that make up a person. The hottest, smartest woman in the world loses some points if she has strongly opposing values and beliefs, is too busy or distant to have the time to commit to a partner, or has some kind of crazy quirk like bathing in kitten blood.
You might find that if you look for the traits you find appealing and shared interests first, you'll be more inclined to perceive beauty as you get to know her. That's the thing about attractiveness - it's entirely subjective and those happy love chemicals alter the perception of it.
Most of those things you mentioned (values, beliefs, etc) are subsets of the mentality part. Regarding the physical part, I wasn't trying to come off as shallow. What is attractive to me, might not attractive to others and viceversa (i.e. most of the INTJ forum has ginger-fever. Myself, I prefer brunettes). Most of the things I do such as hobbies, academic pursuits, etc are seldom populated by women, which by default, minimizes the chances of meeting the type of woman I search for. As you can see, most of the time I have to look outside of my regular activity and social circle (i.e. extraverted activies for which are draining to the INTJ and makes me loath myself for even considering the idea) in order to have exposure.
Ideally speaking, I would love to meet a hot nerdette that would stroke my Central Processing Unit all day but that is my eternal alluding quest.
I can talk all day about some of the things you have pointed out above (and which I happily will discuss and prove my point, but we're in the wrong thread for that and I don't want to diverge), so yeah I'll throw a pic of me showing das gunz.