I recently had a debate with an INFJ, he claims I push my agenda on people. Which could be true, my agenda is "using your fucking head". Also that I have the inability to see things from everyones perspective, which is untrue. I just can't simply agree with someone just because their feelings are hurt on something so little. Or if I see how things could've been avoided altogether, I tend to disregard how someone feels and help them prep for the next time something happens, which in return deems me "heartless". How do you deal with someone who is so blinded by their emotions that they don't speak what they think and are always worried about how someone will react? I find it difficult to believe him or take his word on some things because I know he's always thinking with his emotions. I personally find it exhausting to use my brain power to avoid someone's feelings being hurt but I wont go out out of my way to be "hurtful", if someone asks me something I speak truthfully. Please express if you feel the same way and why. Also if you did once think this way and your perspective has changed, what changed it and why do you think I should change it as well?
I appreciate everyone taking the time to read and express their opinions on this. I'm not sure who to go to when it comes to these things.