however, if that response bugs you, have this more polite reply. i'll even throw in a withholding of the prescriptive word 'should' for free.
i had thought about it and had it ready to tell her once she gave me some room to speak in. that section of the conversation isn't reported here.
This thread's about conversations that have happened in our day and we're all meant to be friends here. I understand what Lily was saying in the post you initially quoted, sometimes I want to talk to people but there's no one around and when they try to make you talk at an inconvenient time it's irritating, does that clear things up a little for you? For added emphasis, I could start this post with LOL and seem like I'm laughing at, then attacking you.
Maybe I should start by saying that I'm not offended.;) I laugh because this is so true of me. Also, I am sometimes jealous of your ability to be rational. Speaking for myself, there have been plenty of times when I was so distraught (usually over a relationship) that the only way I could cope was to do something that I knew was stupid (like call him.) I can absolutely see the frustration from your point of view, cuz I look at myself and see the same thing. It's VERY frustrating to know that there's no reason for me to be upset about something, yet feel inexplicably sad. I try to tell myself that everything is just a response to my neurons dancing around, but I can't seem to change irrational feelings. Sucks!
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i was feeling all intj'ish and strategic ;-) all i wanted to do for my weekend project was notify the people i know i need more of their time and attention than i've been getting from all of them. and then leave them to it. doesn't need to be fixed immediately, but i guess she's a very right-here-right-now kind of thinker. you know how seamless we can look on the surface, without even meaning to or intending to cover anything up.Quote:
But you did great on admitting how you felt up to that end point. Good for you for reaching out and telling someone how you felt. I know. It's totally not easy for me either.
Cause you can never be wrong right? I mean, it says so right there in your signature. We shouldn't need to dumb things down for people, especially if they consider themselves close enough friends to "know," us.
ENFP: Would you like to watch Hunger Games Catching Fire with me? :kitteh:
Me: I prefer to watch The Running Man twice, without you.:dry:
ISFJ: Jennifer Lawrence is awesome! :blushed:
Me: Nope... She's overrated. :proud:
ISFJ: What the... She's not overrated! :shocked:
Me: Then, just tell me what makes her so special? :proud:
Me: Yes? :proud:
Me: Are you angry? :proud:
Me: Oh dear, you are angry... Why is that? :proud:
Me: American Hustle... Now, that's a kick ass movie. :cool:
INTP: Oh... Jennifer Lawrence, right? :wink:
Me: Nope... Louis CK. :dry:
Whatsapp conversation with le mother.
Mother: [whine whine, bitch bitch, life sucks] .. [Sick sick, illness, doctors bad health, can't move]
Mother: [Can't get out of bed. sick sick cough cough no energy omg poor me] [life sucks. life sucks. life sucks.]
Mother: [long list of activities done today]
Me: So.. really.. it's not been such a bad day after all
I'm now awaiting the You-Are-Not-Being-A-Supportive-Daughter / Validate-My-PAINNN email.