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This is a discussion on My story. Need Help! Calling all the INTP fellas within the INTP Forum - The Thinkers forums, part of the NT's Temperament Forum- The Intellects category; Originally Posted by Alpha12 3:20 in the morning, Thursday/9th/November/2018 Hello, all the INTP's out there and others too. I am ...

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    Quote Originally Posted by Alpha12 View Post
    3:20 in the morning, Thursday/9th/November/2018

    Hello, all the INTP's out there and others too. I am new here and this my first thread on this website. I am from India, I am just like normal INTPS out there. I am a computer science final year Student. I get Average grades in exams with normal Study. Everyone thinks I am a very smart guy but only i know what goes in my mind. I am a master procrastinator. Don't have any siblings. Don't have many friends because of my social awkwardness.(I have 1 Doctor friend who is INTJ) I don't go outside much. My only world is my room, I sit in front of my computer whole day plaiyng games, trying to research useless things(i don't know why I do that.) or trying to watch self-improvement video. One of my good habits is I go to the gym every morning. It's holidays. Usually, I go to College after hitting the gym but nowdays I come from the gym and start to read something after 15 minutes or so I get distracted and I say to myself I'll start from tomorrow let's play some games or search something on the internet (ex: Why am I like this?) and here it goes. My Loop, that's what I do every day. I am single. My girlfriend dumped me because of some stupid reasons (for an example:: Whenever my girlfriend tried to talk me my minds wonders of in the middle of a conversation and after she did her talking I used to say can you repeat that and again I get distracted by my thoughts )

    My Problems :

    # Suffering from depression and OCD (obsessive-compulsive disorder) from past 6 months This shit got so crazy that I even started getting panic attacks. I am addicted to masturbation. I masturbate daily from an age of 14. Tried NOFAP. Did not work couldn't hold the urge. My psychiatrist told me that I got this OCD because of the guilt I get after masturbation.

    # I procrastinate a lot.

    # Social anxiety

    # Can't pay attention to conversations, get distracted so easily.

    # I can think of so many Cool ideas, I start 1000's of projects, Many to-do lists and 100's of plans but the problem is I start everything but never finish anything. All I know is that I can't stick to one idea or plan.

    All I know that I can be very productive if I'll stick to 1 thing.

    List will be too long if I will write down every problem I have.

    ohh f**k I forgot why I am writing this down. Oh yeah, I need your help guys.

    Just tell me why am I like this?

    What should I do to Improve myself?


    I want to reach the full potential of INTP.


    (Please don't tell me the answers I know already like = Start reading, bla..bla..bla...)

    And yeah, pls don't hate me. Took so much effort to write this down



    Thanks,
    Your friend.
    Have you tried breaking out of your Daily schedule?
    Alpha12 thanked this post.

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    Thanks for that. I am also one of the subscribers of Athlene-X. I will try out your suggestions. Thanks again.

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    @Sangam swadik
    Right now the only thing I am doing is understanding how habits work. I have found out what's been triggering my cravings and now I'll switch my patterns. There is no schedule for me. Hehe. I do everything at random time. It's not like I am bad at time management. I tried to make schedule for my day and did not work for me. I do everything for 3-4 days. Maybe it's because I try everything at once. Beacuse of lack of will-power to handle all of the new things and I give up.
    I have to start building habits one by one. Can't improve myself in one day.

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    Quote Originally Posted by SimplyEnigmatic View Post
    May I suggest joining a club of your interest. The best way to beat it is have your mind distracted on the activity that you don't have a social anxiety attack.
    I would also suggest joining a club or otherwise finding a group of peers to meet up with regularly. Having some regular, novel human interaction can help a lot in getting a new perspective on your own life.


     
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