Shit I need help. I'm new to relationships because I only really became open to the possibility this year. But do any other INTPs have relationship issues. As in whenever you see the person or going to see the person youre in a relationship with, you get anxiety?
I'm not good at any part of the relationship. I got anxiety so bad that I ended up having health problems because of my anxiety and stress levels reached a new high.
Don't get me wrong- you like the person you're seeing. But something in you ends up thinking that relationships don't feel realistic. They feel like they don't belong with other forms of interaction and because of this sporadic variable, you don't feel in control. Do you guys have this?
Also, do you worry about wasting your time if it doesn't go right?
I don't know how to control it. I feel fine when I'm with them, but I can feel the anxiety rising as time goes on. Especially after leaving them.
But I know this is something I've got to get used to. I don't talk to many people at all. I don't have friends so this is a big step for me. Especially because the guy im seeing is an extrovert.
If you INTPs have in fact experienced this, can you let me know how you got over it? Please not just time. It can be some sort of thought psychology that you had, some mentality. It can be actual physical methods. I don't care. Just anything.