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This is a discussion on As Lady Dark Lies Dying within the INTP Forum - The Thinkers forums, part of the NT's Temperament Forum- The Intellects category; Bumped off the first page. It feels like a dress rehearsal for what's to come. But really...what is there to ...

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    Bumped off the first page.

    It feels like a dress rehearsal for what's to come. But really...what is there to add? It all falls short, even for me.

    I told her the other day, "I don't understand how this happens. You're confined to bed and aren't using your left arm. If you lose the remote one more time and I have to spend hours looking for it, I'm going to duct tape it to your good hand." And she did.

    So I did.
    Last edited by DarkBarlow; 08-25-2019 at 07:28 AM.
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    So it's a weird thing. I randomly, suddenly check PerC for the first time in forever, and...

    ...say a prayer for my buddy and his wonderful Lady.


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    @DarkBarlow

    Indeed. How's she doing with food these days?
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    Kerry Lynn sounds like an amazing , funny lady. Prayers for both of you as you go through this.

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    Absolutely heartbreaking but glad to hear she's facing it bravely and without regrets.

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    Quote Originally Posted by Eryngo View Post
    Indeed. How's she doing with food these days?
    Not well. Nothing yesterday, one bite of a burger she requested today. She was drained today too. They installed a port at the hospital last week so hospice (or me in a pinch) can drain her at home and spare her the trip. This has always improved her appetite in the past but not today. Two liters drained and still no appetite.

    We've heard from a few people that have been through this that not eating is the two-weeks-to-go mark. Before yesterday she was forcing herself to eat even though it was causing much more abdominal pain. And her teeth hurt and her mouth hurts...the thought of having to experience the pain of a bowel movement terrifies her. That and, to a lesser extent, I'm on clean-up. ("I couldn't possibly...I'm a laaady."). I shopped for easy, soft food too... yogurt, ice cream, pudding, etc...she doesn't want any of it. "I'll make crème bruleee...". Nope.

    But she was scared and forcing herself to eat last week. Her boy (30. Works an oil rig.) is coming down from North Dakota to visit for a few days next week. She is (was?) holding out for that. He's a good kid. Good-natured, good character...and he'll play board games with me. Even the complicated ones. His other half too.

    Maybe I'll make a hot fudge sundae later and eat it in front of her. Maybe she'll ask for a bite or two. She told me to stop trying to push food on her but that's not pushing, right? I'm just enjoying a hot fudge sundae while sitting on the couch watching my favorite show, Real Housewives. It's my sundae. What could possibly make her think I'd share?
    Last edited by DarkBarlow; 08-26-2019 at 04:00 PM.
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    I'm sad


    Lots of strength to you two incredibly strong souls.
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    Quote Originally Posted by NipNip View Post
    I'm sad


    Lots of strength to you two incredibly strong souls.
    We never married. We talked about it but never got around to it. There's an old abandoned Wizard of Oz theme park in North Carolina that burned down in the 60's or something. It's way out in the woods all by itself. The buildings and rides are all gone. All that's left is the Yellow Brick Road and a few trees with faces. She wanted the ceremony there. What a weirdo...

    Anyway, I told her, "If you reincarnate right away, no screwing around reflecting on things, you'll be 18 when I'm 70 and we can get married then. I can see that working." So we'll see.
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    Quote Originally Posted by DarkBarlow View Post
    We never married. We talked about it but never got around to it. There's an old abandoned Wizard of Oz theme park in North Carolina that burned down in the 60's or something. It's way out in the woods all by itself. The buildings and rides are all gone. All that's left is the Yellow Brick Road and a few trees with faces. She wanted the ceremony there. What a weirdo...

    Anyway, I told her, "If you reincarnate right away, no screwing around reflecting on things, you'll be 18 when I'm 70 and we can get married then. I can see that working." So we'll see.
    I'm happy*

    Try as you might... but you're the best.
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