My girlfriend of 2 plus years is an INTP and I, the ESFJ.
We have had our ups and downs lately, mostly she has been saying that I am not connected to her and not in tune. It is highly important to me that I am indeed connected and in tune with her because, well, she's the love of my life.
I need some insight on what makes a female INTP, or simply INTP in general, tick.
We discuss ideas and concepts a lot and I love that. I personally love some of our differences and believe that they add some great things as to compared if I were with someone who was exactly like me. I don't want a relationship with "me". So, any clues?
If this helps, we are both homebodies, love conversation on ideas and concepts, as mentioned above.
It's just that I want to give her what she needs and yet not feel shortchanged at the same time nor be selfish about my own needs.
Any help would be greatly appreciated.
SJ (Those are my initials, not anything to do with my type but I get the comedy of it)