Girly? Hmmm. I would say my girly-ness pops out unexpectedly. I get teased for loving fashion magazines but generally wear t-shirts and jeans. I have a utility skirt that I adore for summer, it is denim, knee-length and has a lot of pockets. I almost only wear one pair of earrings over and over, when I remember to put them on, although I own others. I like eye make-up but use it according to mood not routine.
I do not expect men to treat me differently but watch me swoon when a guy helps me with my coat or carries something for me that I am completely capable of carrying for myself. I am a total sucker for well-mannered men, especially when I can feel the vibe that it is not by rote but by nature that they are courteous. I find it a bit illogical to care if he got that door for me but it still matters and garners him points.
I related to many of the other posts here, nice to have company.