This is a discussion on Dating for the INTP within the INTP Forum - The Thinkers forums, part of the NT's Temperament Forum- The Intellects category; Originally Posted by nadjasix You have a uterus? You're everyone's mommy. Or else. uhh... what? O_o Am I being forcefully ...
2. Be yourself, flaws and all. Being reserved, as INTPs tend to be, you may feel compelled to hold things back (like differing opinions, anger, annoyance, etc.) lest the other person think less of you. Don't do that. It is better to not be in a relationship than to be in one when the other person thinks you are someone you aren't. However...
3. Don't indulge every INTP urge to correct someone. It is usually better to just let trivial things slide.
4. Avoid ENFJs. Nice people, very warm... but their rollercoaster of emotions will make for a difficult relationship, especially for your first.
5. Women aren't that mysterious. There's no "secret" to understanding them... they are people just like anyone else, with their own quirks, opinions, and preferences. Some are batshit crazy, while others are incredibly sane. You want to date the latter.
That's all for now.
I've been waiting to use this song somewhere, and I think this is the appropriate place:
... I think it's safe to say this is how most INTPs feel when it comes to relationships
I'm going full ENTJ next time.
Or were you? I can picture this now... Nadjasix from another dimension successfully figuring out cross-dimensional travel, meets her self here, totally ENTJ compared to her own-self as INTP in this dimension.... there will be a huge battle of mental wits before our Nadjasix figure out some heroic way to kick the batshit out of her doppleganger back to her own dimension... and thus, our Nadjasix saved our dimension from being destroyed from her ENTJ self and the world. The end.
*MORE COFFEE! I'M ON A OFF-TOPIC / TANGENT ROLL TONIGHT*
Who says? I'm seeing a pattern here of lumping Fs as these rollercoaster types. Sure, that's true, but only if they're selfish and immature. A nice, mature F will be considerate enough to not dump unnecessary emotional turbulence on those who don't deserve it.Avoid ENFJs. Nice people, very warm... but their rollercoaster of emotions will make for a difficult relationship, especially for your first.