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This is a discussion on Dating for the INTP within the INTP Forum - The Thinkers forums, part of the NT's Temperament Forum- The Intellects category; Originally Posted by nadjasix You have a uterus? You're everyone's mommy. Or else. uhh... what? O_o Am I being forcefully ...

  1. #101
    INTP - The Thinkers

    Quote Originally Posted by nadjasix View Post
    You have a uterus? You're everyone's mommy. Or else.
    uhh... what? O_o

    Am I being forcefully cast into a parental role, where I shall rule over all you minions children?

  2. #102
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    Quote Originally Posted by Ablysmal View Post
    uhh... what? O_o

    Am I being forcefully cast into a parental role, where I shall rule over all you minions children?
    Well, probably not, if you're younger than 25... but just wait...

  3. #103

    Quote Originally Posted by Technik View Post
    I'd like to hear some of your good advice on dating, relationships, and all that good stuff.
    1. Acknowledge that you are not an extrovert and the odds of you instantly "clicking" with someone and starting a relationship are slim to none. Instead, try to just meet and get to know people first and worry about whether or not they are "dating" material later. I've never been good at striking up conversations with strangers, so almost everyone I've dated has been a result of having something in common... being a fellow member of an organization, a classmate, etc. The difficulty for you will be that you live in a rural area and seem to be a bit of a "home body." Do not resort to kidnapping.

    2. Be yourself, flaws and all. Being reserved, as INTPs tend to be, you may feel compelled to hold things back (like differing opinions, anger, annoyance, etc.) lest the other person think less of you. Don't do that. It is better to not be in a relationship than to be in one when the other person thinks you are someone you aren't. However...

    3. Don't indulge every INTP urge to correct someone. It is usually better to just let trivial things slide.

    4. Avoid ENFJs. Nice people, very warm... but their rollercoaster of emotions will make for a difficult relationship, especially for your first.

    5. Women aren't that mysterious. There's no "secret" to understanding them... they are people just like anyone else, with their own quirks, opinions, and preferences. Some are batshit crazy, while others are incredibly sane. You want to date the latter.


    That's all for now.
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  4. #104
    INTP - The Thinkers

    I've been waiting to use this song somewhere, and I think this is the appropriate place:



    ... I think it's safe to say this is how most INTPs feel when it comes to relationships

  5. #105
    INTP - The Thinkers

    Quote Originally Posted by anarchitektur View Post
    Avoid ENFJs. Nice people, very warm... but their rollercoaster of emotions will make for a difficult relationship, especially for your first.
    ENFJ-INTP is apparently one of the best relationships in the MBTI. But, yeah, might be a bit rough for your first rodeo... Still, there is something to be said for having a rough first rodeo... https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=BruEHFqES1U

  6. #106
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    I'm going full ENTJ next time.

    J/k.
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  7. #107
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    Quote Originally Posted by nadjasix View Post
    I'm going full ENTJ next time.

    J/k.

    Or were you? I can picture this now... Nadjasix from another dimension successfully figuring out cross-dimensional travel, meets her self here, totally ENTJ compared to her own-self as INTP in this dimension.... there will be a huge battle of mental wits before our Nadjasix figure out some heroic way to kick the batshit out of her doppleganger back to her own dimension... and thus, our Nadjasix saved our dimension from being destroyed from her ENTJ self and the world. The end.

    *MORE COFFEE! I'M ON A OFF-TOPIC / TANGENT ROLL TONIGHT*

  8. #108
    INTP - The Thinkers

    Quote Originally Posted by anarchitektur View Post
    Instead, try to just meet and get to know people first and worry about whether or not they are "dating" material later. I've never been good at striking up conversations with strangers, so almost everyone I've dated has been a result of having something in common... being a fellow member of an organization, a classmate, etc. The difficulty for you will be that you live in a rural area and seem to be a bit of a "home body." Do not resort to kidnapping.
    Do you have any suggestions for this? I have been trying to find activities in my area, but again - most of the activities are painting, drama, sculpting -- the artsy things. I'm not very artsy, so those aren't really my kind of things and it would be misleading to pretend to enjoy participating in them by myself just for the sake of meeting people.

  9. #109
    INTP - The Thinkers

    Avoid ENFJs. Nice people, very warm... but their rollercoaster of emotions will make for a difficult relationship, especially for your first.
    Who says? I'm seeing a pattern here of lumping Fs as these rollercoaster types. Sure, that's true, but only if they're selfish and immature. A nice, mature F will be considerate enough to not dump unnecessary emotional turbulence on those who don't deserve it.

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    Quote Originally Posted by Technik View Post
    Do you have any suggestions for this? I have been trying to find activities in my area, but again - most of the activities are painting, drama, sculpting -- the artsy things. I'm not very artsy, so those aren't really my kind of things and it would be misleading to pretend to enjoy participating in them by myself just for the sake of meeting people.
    I don't know anything about you or your interests... I'm afraid you'll have to figure that part out on your own.

    Quote Originally Posted by lardman64 View Post
    Who says? I'm seeing a pattern here of lumping Fs as these rollercoaster types. Sure, that's true, but only if they're selfish and immature. A nice, mature F will be considerate enough to not dump unnecessary emotional turbulence on those who don't deserve it.
    Since I was the one who said it, "who says" should be kind of obvious. If you're asking what qualifies me to say it... nothing other than my own subjective experience, as I was engaged to an ENFJ when I was in my mid-twenties. Since the OP is 21, I think the "immaturity" you speak of is a fair presumption to make about the majority of ENFJs in his age group, which further validates my point. Where the selfishness you mentioned comes from, however, is unclear to me.


     
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