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This is a discussion on Q&A about dating INTPs, and INTP dating: within the INTP Forum - The Thinkers forums, part of the NT's Temperament Forum- The Intellects category; Originally Posted by Richard With Rift, I go by a rough estimate of the ratio of innuendo I can detect ...

  1. #91
    INFP - The Idealists

    Quote Originally Posted by Richard View Post
    With Rift, I go by a rough estimate of the ratio of innuendo I can detect to the colourful analogies that are so ambiguous I have no idea where to begin interpreting them. Given he brings sex into most conversations, I can only assume that when I’m lost, sex is involved. Power struggles seem to be a frequent theme with him, the games that man must engage in.
    So Rift being the benchmark, we arrive at a ratio via Richard/ @Rift with rift being 100 on the Innuendo Scale(tm)?

    I give Rift mad props, though... The complexity of the sexual imagery there is scary good.
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  2. #92
    INTP - The Thinkers

    Quote Originally Posted by Marimeli View Post
    So Rift being the benchmark, we arrive at a ratio via Richard/ @Rift with rift being 100 on the Innuendo Scale(tm)?

    I give Rift mad props, though... The complexity of the sexual imagery there is scary good.
    I really should have taken the time to clean it up though... if we got into the specific regions and countries, I think I could have tied in an allusion to japanese bondage or at the very least gotten him to consider cosplaying as Sailor Saturn too...

  3. #93
    INTP - The Thinkers

    A couple questions I have been trying to figure out recently:

    1) sexual tension. I am pretty sure I feel this toward someone, but how do you know if the other person does have sexual tension toward you? Also, what does it feel like?

    2) during my quest to figure out of a lady may be interested in me I came across something called chemistry. I can kind of see this but not quite sure what the signs would be.

  4. #94
    Unknown Personality

    Quote Originally Posted by Rift View Post
    I really should have taken the time to clean it up though... if we got into the specific regions and countries, I think I could have tied in an allusion to japanese bondage or at the very least gotten him to consider cosplaying as Sailor Saturn too...
     

    dammit all to the seven hells ... whenever there's talks or topic switches to fetishes, especially japanese fetishes, i'm once again haunted by the imagery branded into my brain that is Shitting Dick Nipples.

    ~*ptooie, blech, bleh, eck, yuck, gross, ew, ugh, crap, shudder*~


    **Disclaimer, don't even bother to click the spoiler above unless you're absolutely certain you want to know and be scarred with useless information for the remainder of your life.... as you, too, will be reminded of such trauma as had I. Thank you for playing 'Read my spoiler'. Especially many unthanks to the special person who fed me this information to share along as well, but that would be rude and unkind.
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  5. #95
    INTP - The Thinkers

    Quote Originally Posted by qingdom View Post
    **Disclaimer, don't even bother to click the spoiler above unless you're absolutely certain you want to know and be scarred with useless information for the remainder of your life.... as you, too, will be reminded of such trauma as had I.
    They probably should see it, look it up, be traumatized by it... if it doesn't put them off of relationships, dating and hooking up with the thought the partner(s) of their dreams might really be into that scene...

    compromise isn't all about wedding rings and who should take out the trash...

    then they could rest assured that if those people can find someone and a group of fans.. then the stigma of even just being an intp... even with all their creepy and inane obsessions is no excuse for not putting themselves out there and taking a chance.

  6. #96
    INTP - The Thinkers

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  7. #97
    Unknown Personality

    Quote Originally Posted by lastman View Post
    A couple questions I have been trying to figure out recently:

    1) sexual tension. I am pretty sure I feel this toward someone, but how do you know if the other person does have sexual tension toward you? Also, what does it feel like?

    2) during my quest to figure out of a lady may be interested in me I came across something called chemistry. I can kind of see this but not quite sure what the signs would be.
    If she is really friendly and outgoing toward other people including other guys but for some reason she gets really timid and shy around you...she wants you, bad. Unless she's an outright bitch, that just means she doesn't like you.
    If she faces her entire body toward you and looks interested in everything you say then she is probably feeling you. Whenever I like someone, I care way more about making conversation then usual.


    Sexual chemistry is amazing but it's dangerous. I personally think it is just this primitive, raw, sexual attraction toward someone. You just want them, really bad. It is typically short-lived and doesn't really mean anything in the long-run. It's like the human mating dance. You feel this type of chemistry, I think it's pretty obvious.
    A different type of chemistry is this immediate feeling of security when you are around that person. They just make you feel comfortable being yourself. The entire positive interaction comes naturally, "small talk" doesn't really exist because no matter what you two start talking about, it is fucking awesome. You can tell if the person is genuinely interested and they ask your opinion and they start opening up about personal things like their family and their feelings.
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  8. #98
    INTP - The Thinkers

    I have caught eyes with this girl a few times across the sales floor. She looked down and away. Once she came up to me, chatted a bit. I asked her about her weekend and stuff, she kind of mirrored me in terms of stance. But the kicker was after the fact where she ran back to do something and came back out walking behind me and slowing down almost pausing as if she wanted to say something or wanted me to say something. Not sure but I took notice. It gave me this weird feeling.

    We do talk, I do get a bit suggestive but very vague at times, with a sly smile on my mug. Once she backed into something whilst we where chatting and we both giggled. A few times she has dropped something and smacked herself with something when in the back room with me.

    However, she really don't talk to me unless I guess as a last resort. The major discussions we have had where of food, and photography as she know I was a camera junkie. She will talk and almost hang on to another co-worker, younger then I am, better looking then I am, she sometimes follows him around and my buddy told me she followed him around too. Yeah, she is just not interested in working. But then again, I am not always interested in working either.

    So, yeah seems like I am the last resort to talk to.

    Both of us have trouble with eye contact it seems. She don't hang around me, perhaps she don't need to. A couple times I ended up in the back room with her just chatting and BSing while working.

    The thought has occurred to me that she is just using the guys there (including myself) as a babysitter while she goes home to her boyfriend thinking about all the attention and validation all the guys are giving her.

    Probably best if I just stop trying to analyze the situation and forget about her. She is taken anyway (though I do wonder just "how taken"). Much younger then I am. And I am not much in the looks department, but she is very easy to make laugh.

    Attraction sucks :(

  9. #99
    INFJ - The Protectors

    Quote Originally Posted by Jennywocky View Post
    I remember being kind of snarky about expressions of emotion in my early relationships. Part of me ate it up on the part of the other person, but I never wanted to do it myself, and sometimes I would talk down to the other person / be dismissive.

    It took me some years to experience the value in such displays and initiatives. It's mostly a matter of balance, too...
    I've been the exact same way. I'm still working on not being paranoid that people will suddenly stop liking me. That I think is at the root of the matter. When someone is addicted to you, you can be sure they're not going to leave you.

  10. #100
    INTP - The Thinkers

    Quote Originally Posted by lastman View Post
    I have caught eyes with this girl a few times across the sales floor. She looked down and away. Once she came up to me, chatted a bit. I asked her about her weekend and stuff, she kind of mirrored me in terms of stance. But the kicker was after the fact where she ran back to do something and came back out walking behind me and slowing down almost pausing as if she wanted to say something or wanted me to say something. Not sure but I took notice. It gave me this weird feeling.

    We do talk, I do get a bit suggestive but very vague at times, with a sly smile on my mug. Once she backed into something whilst we where chatting and we both giggled. A few times she has dropped something and smacked herself with something when in the back room with me.

    However, she really don't talk to me unless I guess as a last resort. The major discussions we have had where of food, and photography as she know I was a camera junkie. She will talk and almost hang on to another co-worker, younger then I am, better looking then I am, she sometimes follows him around and my buddy told me she followed him around too. Yeah, she is just not interested in working. But then again, I am not always interested in working either.

    So, yeah seems like I am the last resort to talk to.

    Both of us have trouble with eye contact it seems. She don't hang around me, perhaps she don't need to. A couple times I ended up in the back room with her just chatting and BSing while working.

    The thought has occurred to me that she is just using the guys there (including myself) as a babysitter while she goes home to her boyfriend thinking about all the attention and validation all the guys are giving her.
    Take it from me, stay away from that girl. I know her type all to well I like to refer to them as attention whores. People are more probable to fall in love with someones who lives close or works with them though. She might be into you but shes hanging on other guys and has a boyfriend. Leave it alone, plenty of fish in the sea.
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