This is a discussion on Q&A about dating INTPs, and INTP dating: within the INTP Forum - The Thinkers forums, part of the NT's Temperament Forum- The Intellects category; Originally Posted by Anna Soloveichik ^ That's because he probably wasn't interested in the first place. You didn't "scare" him. ...
So I sent a note to someone on an online dating site, just asking if she was into personality theory since she had listed interests as psychology, astronomy, sociology, and philosophy.
This was her response below. She wants my birthdate and the time? Or is that a bootie call? That's the oddest request ever.
"Hey there :)
I took the mbti a couple years ago actually, I'm an INTP type. What about you? What's your birthdate/time/place?"
It was the time thing that I was wondering about - I hadn't thought about numerology like @Ablysmal mentioned. I don't even know what that is other than some sort of mysticism thing.
How important is to be in a relationship? Does it worth the scrapes of being "uncompatible" on so many different levels? Are our requirements too high? (Guess they are, but even if I lower them to like really minimum(e.g. nonsmoker, at least some intelligence, her favourite movie isn´t The Twilight Saga)) I can´t seem to find anyone really interesting. The worst thing is that every year I just tell myself hmm, looks like you are going to die alone xD I am often afraid of emptiness, that might appear, because we really dont care and talk much about the everyday stuff unless its funny or worth sharing... Though I am able to talk about anything with my friends and I seem to entertain them really often. Gaaah, the more I think of relationships the more I am scared O.o I feel like E.T. left in a place I dont really understand and if I do I cant just fall into the formation ...
"Numerology is the study of numbers that helps determine and reflect a persons characteristics, talents, motivations and path in life."
Well there ya go. This girl obviously wants to know everything there is to know about you, even things you may not even know of yourself! I think you found a keeper.
I hope she doesn't want a booty call because then we're leading Iamtp rather astray.