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This is a discussion on Q&A about dating INTPs, and INTP dating: within the INTP Forum - The Thinkers forums, part of the NT's Temperament Forum- The Intellects category; Originally Posted by Marimeli @ Rift :said bloke and grab crotch. I also respond to these. :P Well there are ...

  1. #111
    INTP - The Thinkers

    Quote Originally Posted by Marimeli View Post
    @Rift :said bloke and grab crotch. I also respond to these. :P
    Well there are some pubs where dames might be more receptive to it...

    still in my experience location is everything when it comes to picking up dames...if only to have more of a clearer concept of the environmental and social rules, being there for similar intentions or interests. If all that's out of the way... we can pretty much bypass most of the politics and get on with a casual introduction.

    The issues in the general and more 'public' arenas is that the environment is pretty much on the defensive to look out for skeevy guys, potential creepers and predators... so sometimes even saying hello is met with hostilities or suspicion. I can understand the hesitation to speak to some of them...

    'course, there are certainly a few fellows like that too... though the public isn't as nearly as defensive when a dude is being approached by a dame or even another lad.

    But anyway, environment...

    I think someone would have to a call an ambulance for some of these fellows if they ever made it into those pubs, events and other locations... where the women might pick them up before the thought even crosses their minds or even if they were just more receptive to whatever they might bring.

    ...and actually I'm beginning to think they wouldn't even be able to survive going to a *Con... actually they might not even survive the parking lot.

    and if they couldn't handle that... maybe they should approach a matchmaker or ask their friends to set them up.

    Cruising at the local bookshop is kind of sad, unless it's a specialized bookshop (they still exist, don't they?) but unless soccer moms are their thing... I don't quite know what to say.

    I mean, I could be more forthright... I've done some pretty over the top things to gain the attention of a lass.. easier at a more social venues from requesting the dj to play a song "We've got a request for the young woman in the white dress at table #9; Here's Baby Got Back" to even buying a weed off a roving flower seller to give to a dame for no other reason than the only way to truly celebrate the life of a flower cut in its prime is to allow it be caressed and worn by only someone whose beauty surpasses it.

    'course it was easier in my day, you get them hopped up on chai and hit back a couple espresso shots, share a clove or a joint out on the patio, spend the entire night talking, and eventually head back to her place where you find out she's a lesbian and she thought you were one too... in those flannel filled days it was hard hard to tell... but it didn't seem to matter as much, foreplay was fun with anyone and there was always the potential for getting closer to someone to help pay off the rent.

    Really it was (still is) harder to find a decent roommate...

    I'm probably not the right person to try to help them out with that sort of thing... it's like people that want to lose weight or gain muscle but start tuning you out when you start talking about changing their eating habits and exercising more.

    Although that's probably a bad analogy... still I just keep wanting to offer them a shake weight.

    or completely inappropriate advice... it sounds like I need to read up more on how to pick up chicks in a convent to really help these lads.

    Still if they go questionably gay for a while, it's been proven to help with a str8 lad's confidence... and I mean, really, who doesn't want to be pretty one on occasion... and maybe if they learn how to fend off the aggressive advances of other men they can gain a deeper insight into how to approach women. (or maybe I'm just setting up these fellows for all intp stockbar burlesque show.)

    'course wearing a kilt to a bar with a bunch of rowdy drunken women... is pretty much the same thing, 'cept the dudes tend to respect a few more boundaries.
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  2. #112
    INTP - The Thinkers

    Quote Originally Posted by nadjasix View Post
    "Do you have a boyfriend?"
    What are you saying I'm not pretty enough to have a boyfriend... or that it's some kind of miracle that I do?

  3. #113
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    Quote Originally Posted by Rift View Post
    What are you saying I'm not pretty enough to have a boyfriend... or that it's some kind of miracle that I do?
    The only guys I've ever given the time of day came up to me and asked me that... Often, I did have a boyfriend, but I'd end up chatting a little with them.
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  4. #114
    INTP - The Thinkers

    Quote Originally Posted by nadjasix View Post
    The only guys I've ever given the time of day came up to me and asked me that... Often, I did have a boyfriend, but I'd end up chatting a little with them.
    ... I get the feeling that I should say something like, "Many Bothan spies died to get us this information" at this point. Would be kind of hard to use the Plausible Deniablity Shield and say that, but I suppose that's really the point. But if an INTP really cares, up goes the Plausible Deniability Shield... a bit of a paradox, there...
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  5. #115
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    Quote Originally Posted by crazyeddie View Post
    ... I get the feeling that I should say something like, "Many Bothan spies died to get us this information" at this point. Would be kind of hard to use the Plausible Deniablity Shield and say that, but I suppose that's really the point. But if an INTP really cares, up goes the Plausible Deniability Shield... a bit of a paradox, there...
    Then all the plausible deniability shield is doing is delaying the inevitable.

    I don't think all INTPs do that...

  6. #116
    INFP - The Idealists

    Quote Originally Posted by Rift View Post
    requesting the dj to play a song "We've got a request for the young woman in the white dress at table #9; Here's Baby Got Back"
    please tell me you didn't.
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  7. #117
    INTP - The Thinkers

    Quote Originally Posted by nadjasix View Post
    Then all the plausible deniability shield is doing is delaying the inevitable.

    I don't think all INTPs do that...
    Yeah, some have balls :)
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  8. #118
    INTP - The Thinkers

    Tips for non-INTPs dating/wanting to date an INTP:

    1. We have inferior Fe. Please remember that. This means that usually we are distant and aloof, especially emotionally, but sometimes really irrational displays of emotion will come out. Usually when things start to pile up, or when we're under stress. We hate this, and we'll apologise for it, but it happens so please try not to hold it against us.

    2. If you don't have the ability to at least acknowledge odd trains of thought, you probably shouldn't be dating an INTP. No INTP wants to tell their partner something and have them respond with, "I don't care!!" but expect the INTP to care about their issues that we probably deem trivial. I realise any relationship probably requires talking about subjects the other person doesn't care for, to a certain extent, but it seems with INTPs it's more.

    3. We aren't emotional. But we do feel things. We are not heartless robots.
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  9. #119
    INTP - The Thinkers

    Quote Originally Posted by nadjasix View Post
    The only guys I've ever given the time of day came up to me and asked me that... Often, I did have a boyfriend, but I'd end up chatting a little with them.
    Well I'm reasonably biased and let's face it... it's pretty doubtful most of these lads would be approaching you as you're a self assured pretty chick - even they talk to you and get rejected, it's a letter made for penthouse. Although they'll probably leave out the part about how they pissed their pants and you poured your coffee on them or worse after you found out they were a bronie.

    So, it's a bit more realistic they're going to set their sights a bit lower for attainability... the omega mus perhaps... sure, nice and intelligence young women... but are also just likely to have a few issues and some disfiguring features, particularly the further we get away from the cities and having any kind of social life outside of walmart.
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  10. #120
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    Quote Originally Posted by Rift View Post
    Well I'm reasonably biased and let's face it... it's pretty doubtful most of these lads would be approaching you as you're a self assured pretty chick - even they talk to you and get rejected, it's a letter made for penthouse. Although they'll probably leave out the part about how they pissed their pants and you poured your coffee on them or worse after you found out they were a bronie.

    So, it's a bit more realistic they're going to set their sights a bit lower for attainability... the omega mus perhaps... sure, nice and intelligence young women... but are also just likely to have a few issues and some disfiguring features, particularly the further we get away from the cities and having any kind of social life outside of walmart.
    Yeah, I know.

    The further you get from cities, and places with no social life outside of walmart, the more you have to deal with people who are scared of anyone who gets shit done or cares about anything but watching the game.

    I now know this. Which is why I will never live outside of a city again.
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