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This is a discussion on Q&A about dating INTPs, and INTP dating: within the INTP Forum - The Thinkers forums, part of the NT's Temperament Forum- The Intellects category; Originally Posted by Damien you do know that INTPs often struggle putting their thoughts into words,right? what can i say, ...

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    ENTP - The Visionaries

    Quote Originally Posted by Damien View Post
    you do know that INTPs often struggle putting their thoughts into words,right?

    what can i say, unless you'd like to elaborate on the context of your naive theoretical idea, it will remain a poor practical advice, especially for this particular personality type.
    I'd submit that saying exactly what you mean would be good practical advice for any person regardless of type. Saying exactly what you mean means "saying exactly what you mean." I'm an INTP and I don't have trouble putting my thoughts into words. Perhaps I need to check my membership card.

  2. #482
    ISTJ - The Duty Fulfillers

    Now what about moving past the awkward acquaintance zone? As an istj, I'm cluelessly crushing on an intp. I know that you all value relationships with people you know well. Any suggestions as to how to move into aa closer friendship without (me) coming off as awkward or creepy?

  3. #483
    Unknown Personality

    Quote Originally Posted by smack1 View Post
    Now what about moving past the awkward acquaintance zone? As an istj, I'm cluelessly crushing on an intp. I know that you all value relationships with people you know well. Any suggestions as to how to move into aa closer friendship without (me) coming off as awkward or creepy?
    For me it's usually longevity that catches my attention. If I have a friendship with someone that doesn't just fizzle out after a few months then i take it much more seriously than someone that i have only known a few weeks but hang out with all the time.

    I guess you just have to prove that you don't have this planned-out agenda and you really just appreciate the INTP as a person. This is kind of hard to do if you are crushing hard but try not to be forceful.

  4. #484
    ISTJ - The Duty Fulfillers

    Are you an INTP who wants to get somewhere romantic with a Sensor?

    First of all, don't be embarrassed about it. Sensors are people, too.

    Impressing with intellect is good, but you can take advantage of the Sensing preference to get that person to see you as super-hot.

    A bit of the Ne disdain for Sensors? You think the Sensing is a problem between you? Turn it into a major catalyst for their attraction to you... With one simple action that is legal, respectable, and usually affordable.

    Just engage the Sensor in conversation, and then say: "I've been thinking of starting to wear cologne. But there are hundreds of brands out there, and it gets to be too confusing. Are there two or three that you could recommend to me to choose from?"

    People of any type love to be asked for their opinion. And the sense of smell goes beyond intellect to something primal. The Sensor would be surprised, delighted, and should either furnish some names (e.g., "I really like Eternity by Calvin Klein"), or admit that s/he likes cologne but can't think of the name off the top of his/her head.

    With either answer, steel your courage and say: "Do you think you could come to [insert department store's name] with me and give me your opinion of how these smell on my skin?"

    Instant date, instant conquest, instant new habit that will win you future dates should this relationship not work out.

    An INTJ once won me over with Nicole Miller for Men. Just sayin'.

  5. #485
    ISTJ - The Duty Fulfillers

    So what you're saying is that INTPs tend to be more cautious when it comes to choosing potential partners? That would make a lot of sense, seeing that the INTP I have been crushing on seems to SLOWLY be coming around.

  6. #486
    Unknown Personality

    Quote Originally Posted by smack1 View Post
    So what you're saying is that INTPs tend to be more cautious when it comes to choosing potential partners? That would make a lot of sense, seeing that the INTP I have been crushing on seems to SLOWLY be coming around.
    Hell yes they are cautious. Intps have this magical ability to reason their way out of even the best of matches if anything has struck them as a future incompatibility. We also bore easily so if you can satisfy these two tests (the awesomeness, non-boring test and the longevity test) then you got yourself an intp. If you think the intp digs you then you are already good (for now). Just know that it will take a long time.

  7. #487
    INTP - The Thinkers

    Quote Originally Posted by kikikins View Post
    Hell yes they are cautious. Intps have this magical ability to reason their way out of even the best of matches if anything has struck them as a future incompatibility. We also bore easily so if you can satisfy these two tests (the awesomeness, non-boring test and the longevity test) then you got yourself an intp. If you think the intp digs you then you are already good (for now). Just know that it will take a long time.
    I'm not sure many people have the patience to wait until the INTP has reasoned that there might be some compatibility.
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  8. #488
    Unknown Personality

    Quote Originally Posted by Ablysmal View Post
    I'm not sure many people have the patience to wait until the INTP has reasoned that there might be some compatibility.

    Yeah, most people don't but it's worth a shot in the dark
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  9. #489
    ISTJ - The Duty Fulfillers

    Quote Originally Posted by Ablysmal View Post
    I'm not sure many people have the patience to wait until the INTP has reasoned that there might be some compatibility.
    And once s/he has, we still have to keep jumping through hoops to avoid becoming boring in your eyes. You guys are exhausting. ;)
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  10. #490

    Quote Originally Posted by DaisyChain View Post
    And once s/he has, we still have to keep jumping through hoops to avoid becoming boring in your eyes. You guys are exhausting. ;)
    If you just keep jumping through hoops, then I'll probably still get bored.

    Why not try jumping through different things?
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