I've had mostly bad experiences with women.
One basically led me on, and was a stereotypical cheerleader (barring her intelligence.)
Another tried whipping me, then got offended when I said "no."
The last one was an emotional leech, but gave up when I gave no emotion.
So now, at this moment, I'm not even trying. I found one attractive ENFP woman I've been talking to, but again, I'm hesitant to open up due to basically all my emotional outbursts being caused by women I've dated.