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This is a discussion on Meet an Fi-dom within the Intro forums, part of the Personality Cafe category; Originally Posted by GirlInLove Hi, there! So, I just came to join you, guys. To tell you, I've been "self ...

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    Quote Originally Posted by GirlInLove View Post
    Hi, there! So, I just came to join you, guys. To tell you, I've been "self studying" MBTI for four years now and I settled my type with ISFP. Not yet sure about my Enneagram type but I'm dying to know! Maybe this forum can help me find my true type. Anyone? 😊
    Greetings! What's one thing about yourself you enjoy, what's one thing about yourself you'd like to change?

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    Quote Originally Posted by GirlInLove View Post
    Hi, thanks a lot for the welcome! I started reading about MBTI and Jungian when I began writing, it's definitely for my characters. I found it very intriguing until I got to dive deep into it. At first, I typed myself as INFP. I only settled for ISFP as I get to be true to myself and accept things as they are. No imagining or idealizing of becoming another type.

    My ever favorite thing in this world is Psychology and/or writing. I also love music so much I even listen to a song whenever I write or do the dishes. I constantly wear headphones.

    I don't know but I strongly can relate to a fearless surfer Nancy Adams played by Blake Lively in the film The Shallows (a favorite thriller movie of mine) more than anyone else. Everything about the movie is relatable to me.

    As for my Enneagram, I still can't decide. I'll just copy paste here what I posted in the other section. I hope you can help me somehow.

    Am I an Enneagram so 4 or Enneagram 9 sx? A sexual 7 or Self-pres 2?

    My mind always jump from questions to questions everytime I try to learn about my core fix and instinctual variants. A possibility that I might be a particular type excites me, and then only seconds ago my brain will overthink things from type to type over again. I'm quite indecisive and has difficulty settling with a type.

    Ironically, it's more easier for me to type other people than learning what is mine. It's distressing. The reason why I typed myself as a 9 is because I have little grit to fight back, and that makes me prone to bullying. I fear conflict to be honest. I consider 4 because I feel like something is missing inside me; my longingness alienates me from the real world. I can relate a bit with sexual 7 in terms of being idealistic, funny, goofy, or loud. And enneagram 2 self-pres when I am willing to sacrifice and lose my self-worth for the sake of helping out and be in service, for it's really hard for me to say no.

    Can anyone help me figure out my enneagram type? I want to understand and find my strong sense of self that seems to be missing. 😞
    Types that tend to withdraw and avoid conflict (for different reasons) are 4, 5, and 9.

    You could be a
    479 tritype. This is also known as the "Gentle Spirit" " archetype.


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    Welcome to the forum! :)

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    Quote Originally Posted by tanstaafl28 View Post
    Quote Originally Posted by GirlInLove View Post
    Hi, there! So, I just came to join you, guys. To tell you, I've been "self studying" MBTI for four years now and I settled my type with ISFP. Not yet sure about my Enneagram type but I'm dying to know! Maybe this forum can help me find my true type. Anyone? 😊
    Greetings! What's one thing about yourself you enjoy, what's one thing about yourself you'd like to change?

    Thanks! The thing I enjoy or like about being myself is that I can be highly empathetic. All my life, I feel like I was surrounded by bad things and that there's only me who can feel other people's pain and understand the human core while some people are too selfish to even think about humanity.

    But of course, there's also a thing 'bout myself that I'd like to change, and that is my lack of confidence. More often than not, I am ashamed of myself with no apparent reason. I do just feel that I am but a nobody and a loser. I was bullied in my high school and occassionally teased by some friends. I was called beautiful but still, I don't believe it to be true. It's like I was born defective and unworthy. I don't know but that's how I see myself... Inferior.
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    Quote Originally Posted by GirlInLove View Post
    Thanks! The thing I enjoy or like about being myself is that I can be highly empathetic. All my life, I feel like I was surrounded by bad things and that there's only me who can feel other people's pain and understand the human core while some people are too selfish to even think about humanity.

    But of course, there's also a thing 'bout myself that I'd like to change, and that is my lack of confidence. More often than not, I am ashamed of myself with no apparent reason. I do just feel that I am but a nobody and a loser. I was bullied in my high school and occassionally teased by some friends. I was called beautiful but still, I don't believe it to be true. It's like I was born defective and unworthy. I don't know but that's how I see myself... Inferior.
    Did you look at the 479 Tritype (AKA The Gentle Spirit)?

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    Quote Originally Posted by tanstaafl28 View Post
    Quote Originally Posted by GirlInLove View Post
    Thanks! The thing I enjoy or like about being myself is that I can be highly empathetic. All my life, I feel like I was surrounded by bad things and that there's only me who can feel other people's pain and understand the human core while some people are too selfish to even think about humanity.

    But of course, there's also a thing 'bout myself that I'd like to change, and that is my lack of confidence. More often than not, I am ashamed of myself with no apparent reason. I do just feel that I am but a nobody and a loser. I was bullied in my high school and occassionally teased by some friends. I was called beautiful but still, I don't believe it to be true. It's like I was born defective and unworthy. I don't know but that's how I see myself... Inferior.
    Did you look at the 479 Tritype (AKA The Gentle Spirit)?
    Yes, I read it and... I can relate! 🙂 I am that girl who seems too happy most of the time but privately feels hurt and sad. I could easily put a smile on my face even if I feel like I am dying inside.

    I don't know if knowing my tritype can help me heal myself though.

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    Quote Originally Posted by GirlInLove View Post
    Yes, I read it and... I can relate! 🙂 I am that girl who seems too happy most of the time but privately feels hurt and sad. I could easily put a smile on my face even if I feel like I am dying inside.

    I don't know if knowing my tritype can help me heal myself though.
    I don't think it will hurt. It may be a good place to start.


     
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