[ISFJ] How to find or recognise signs of an ISFJ women - INFJ man

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    How to find or recognise signs of an ISFJ women - INFJ man

    Hey, I'm an INFJ man and i'm very drawn to the idea of having a relationship with an ISFJ woman.

    I like the idea of your warmth, humility, nurturing nature, responsible ways and good moral compass.

    I've heard that they are are generally serious about relationships like I am and look for security in their relationships, which is something i'm happy to provide.

    Can you help me recognise signs of an ISFJ woman in the big bad world? :P :)
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    ISFJ women - in terms of physical appearances, they may dress conservatively and practically (e.g not too much makeup or overly high shoes), with a little bit of flair. In terms of demeanour- they are usually kind and show genuine interest in others, i.e they may want to know how someone is feeling, or how their family is doing etc), and are compassionate to living things/animals. They are usually well-organized and notice details about things and people, but they're not ones to be loud and talk too much, and they avoid the spotlight. You can probably find ISFJs in the helping/administrative professions - e.g counselling, medicine/nursing, teaching, secretarial/office management etc - and in traditional, famly-centered spaces, like church or in non-governmental, non-profit organizations, or in volunteer groups. They tend to like working quietly in the background and tend to avoid the 'spotlight' when it comes to work and other situations.

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    She may the woman you don't typically notice much at all. She'll be polite and minding her own business, but will speak to you if you initiate. Large breasts.
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    Quote Originally Posted by AgileLight View Post
    She may the woman you don't typically notice much at all. She'll be polite and minding her own business, but will speak to you if you initiate. Large breasts.
    Large breast.. Hahaha!!
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    Quote Originally Posted by Zeri View Post
    ISFJ women - in terms of physical appearances, they may dress conservatively and practically (e.g not too much makeup or overly high shoes), with a little bit of flair. In terms of demeanour- they are usually kind and show genuine interest in others, i.e they may want to know how someone is feeling, or how their family is doing etc), and are compassionate to living things/animals. They are usually well-organized and notice details about things and people, but they're not ones to be loud and talk too much, and they avoid the spotlight. You can probably find ISFJs in the helping/administrative professions - e.g counselling, medicine/nursing, teaching, secretarial/office management etc - and in traditional, famly-centered spaces, like church or in non-governmental, non-profit organizations, or in volunteer groups. They tend to like working quietly in the background and tend to avoid the 'spotlight' when it comes to work and other situations.
    One more thing.. Post Office
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    IMO... true ISFJs are traditionalists at heart. They're genuinely chivalristic, altruistic and have no qualms with being "mortars" if/when they need to be. They're the "goodie two shoes" people poke fun at. The "outcasts" of a severely cancerous, selfish and rabidly vicious society. But most of all, they are subservient beyond measure/comprehension/question.
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    Quote Originally Posted by Tripwire_Desire View Post
    IMO... true ISFJs are traditionalists at heart. They're genuinely chivalristic, altruistic and have no qualms with being "mortars" if/when they need to be. They're the "goodie two shoes" people poke fun at. The "outcasts" of a severely cancerous, selfish and rabidly vicious society. But most of all, they are subservient beyond measure/comprehension/question.
    What do you mean by "mortars," Tripwire? As in masonry... holding everything together?

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    Quote Originally Posted by AgileLight View Post
    What do you mean by "mortars," Tripwire? As in masonry... holding everything together?
    To die for a cause. Especially in terms of one that the ISFJ, in question, strongly believes in. It's one thing to believe in something. However, It's an entirely different matter to be willing to lay down your life for it.

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    Quote Originally Posted by Tripwire_Desire View Post
    To die for a cause.
    I think you mean "martyrs."
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    Quote Originally Posted by Drezden_123 View Post
    Hey, I'm an INFJ man and i'm very drawn to the idea of having a relationship with an ISFJ woman.

    I like the idea of your warmth, humility, nurturing nature, responsible ways and good moral compass.

    I've heard that they are are generally serious about relationships like I am and look for security in their relationships, which is something i'm happy to provide.

    Can you help me recognise signs of an ISFJ woman in the big bad world? :P :)
    I must say, this entire idea is curious to me. I think I've seen it in several different forums... that is, men asking how they can identify ISFJ women in the interest of forming a relationship with them.

    On the one hand, if this is what appeals to you and your intuition tells you it would be a good fit for you, then of course, seek it, try it out. It's your life, and you should do what you think will work for you. On the other hand? It seems a bit... maybe not calculating, exactly... eh, maybe mechanical? I mean, why not approach a woman you are attracted to IRL, pursue her if she's receptive and enjoy what ensues?

    As someone female who identifies as ISFJ, I can't say I've ever been much of a hot property (although I have had several exes who tried to come back and get a second chance with me). And I wonder if we all had our type letters tattooed on our foreheads, the ISFJ women might turn out to be quite different people than you might imagine from reading a type description.
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