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This is a discussion on How to handle ex ISFJ. Does she need anything? Inconsistent behavior. within the ISFJ Forum - The Nurturers forums, part of the SJ's Temperament Forum- The Overseers category; Just to finish this story... She went on holidays. Since then she stopped watching my facebook stories while she used ...

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    INTP

    Just to finish this story...

    She went on holidays. Since then she stopped watching my facebook stories while she used to be the first to do that. She was plenty of times online during this time. I used to post only one or two pics per week/two weeks so I wasn't flooding.

    Yesterday I just finished very important run - my second half marathon. As usual I've posted some pics about my run (cause I only share broadly that activty) and my personal best (<1:40:00) (at my timeline) ! What is important she cheered me on site at my first half marathon (6 months ago).

    However she didn't react anyhow. Instead she posted today new image of herself while jumping (first one since few years). What is more I took similar shot of herself when we were in Spain. She never used it. I have given a "like action" (nice picture of her btw. :). That hasn't changed anything.

    I'm sad. Even if I wouldn't like to be in a romantic relationship I would at least congratulate.

    So... I think this is how this story ends.
    Last edited by rubarb; 09-01-2019 at 12:26 PM.

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    Quote Originally Posted by rubarb View Post
    Just to finish this story...

    She went on holidays. Since then she stopped watching my facebook stories while she used to be the first to do that. She was plenty of times online during this time. I used to post only one or two pics per week/two weeks so I wasn't flooding.

    Yesterday I just finished very important run - my second half marathon. As usual I've posted some pics about my run (cause I only share broadly that activty) and my personal best (<1:40:00) (at my timeline) ! What is important she cheered me on site at my first half marathon (6 months ago).

    However she didn't react anyhow. Instead she posted today new image of herself while jumping (first one since few years). What is more I took similar shot of herself when we were in Spain. She never used it. I have given a "like action" (nice picture of her btw. :). That hasn't changed anything.

    I'm sad. Even if I wouldn't like to be in a romantic relationship I would at least congratulate.

    So... I think this is how this story ends.
    Well, maybe. I'm sad for you, rubarb, that you didn't get the interest you were hoping to get.

    So if this is the end of this particular story, what is next for you? Is there anyone else on the horizon? Do you want to take a break from pursuing relationships or get out there and try to meet new people?

    Did you ever look into attachment styles? Here's a test you can take: https://dianepooleheller.com/attachment-test/

  3. #13
    INTP

    Quote Originally Posted by AgileLight View Post
    Well, maybe. I'm sad for you, rubarb, that you didn't get the interest you were hoping to get.

    So if this is the end of this particular story, what is next for you? Is there anyone else on the horizon? Do you want to take a break from pursuing relationships or get out there and try to meet new people?
    At some point it's over but maybe not so painfully... Two days ago I was hit by a car. Minor injuries. Nothing serious. I've posted a querulous post about that. That night she wrote me asking if everything is all right? I answered - yes, thank you for you concern. - You seems to be all right, yeah? - Yep, I'm ok.
    She is an ISFJ, she does care for people.

    I'm actively meeting people. There were plenty of girls during three months. But there is no "magic". There is only one, but I don't know if she is interested.

    Quote Originally Posted by AgileLight View Post
    Did you ever look into attachment styles? Here's a test you can take:
    Yes, I did. But this is just a tool that you can use at some point of relationship.


     
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