I'm an ENTP and my mom is most certainly and ISFJ. I came out to her as gay a couple of years ago and she is a card carrying member of the fundamentalists christians.
Ever since I came out she has been doing a wonderful job of pushing me away suggesting that I turn away from being gay. She tried to get me to watch some documentary about someone who was brought out of homosexuality. She made the condition before trying to get me to watch it that I was not to get angry. in fact whenever I come to my own defense about the matter I am a bad guy and I am laden with emotional blackmail and a good bit of crying.
I am almost at my wits end with this foolishness. It has already cost my psyche to break twice after living a lie for 20 years. I refuse to go crazy again following this sick and delusional cycle.
I hate to hurt her feelings but this whole routine is getting old and I'm about to crack.
Does anybody know anything that can help?