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This is a discussion on Love Types: ISTJ within the ISTJ Articles forums, part of the ISTJ Forum - The Duty Fulfillers category; But I am the one who has to initiate the texting...then she responds and the conversation gets carried away... until ...

  1. #21
    ISTJ - The Duty Fulfillers

    But I am the one who has to initiate the texting...then she responds and the conversation gets carried away... until she falls asleep or gets distracted and stops responding.

    So you smile at guys and look them in the eye just because you are charming?

  2. #22
    ENFP - The Inspirers

    Quote Originally Posted by starrynights View Post
    frequent texting means ur interesting to her. THAT is good.

    The others is just how charming we natturally are sorry
    Yeah, I agree. I would only send text messages if I was interested, so that's certainly good. The rest of it is just us being nice, just because we can't be mean. Keep that in mind.

  3. #23
    ISTJ - The Duty Fulfillers

    Quote Originally Posted by Zaria View Post
    Yeah, I agree. I would only send text messages if I was interested, so that's certainly good. The rest of it is just us being nice, just because we can't be mean. Keep that in mind.
    Uh oh.... that means.... she is probably leading me on because she can't say no.

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  5. #24
    ENFP - The Inspirers

    i can be mean when someone REALLY annoys me. u can try that. oh no dont.

    well, there are things, I, am attracted to.. might not work with all ENFPs:

    a strong man, who has the power to control me and knows it, but prefers to act all gentlemanly with me. a strong complex mix of an authoritative figure who is wise and smart but would look at me like a child to hug and pickup. YET take my ideas into consideration and respect them when needed. and DEFEND them always around others.

    niceness to us is a *been there done that* if a guy is too nice, cool, friend. to step to the next level, u need to have poise, elegance, charm, meaning in ur life, fruits and good to offer me (excerpts of poetry, cool articles, book recomendations that throw me in a nice frenzy, castle pics *just put that in for the kicks*)

    the ENFP, is crazy, wild, passionate, energetic, sensitive, idealistic... needs someone to protect her and to carry her up, but also to be fun and charming and to engage her specualtion senses so we wont get bored.

    ur an ISTJ, u have alot we dont know about. just find the perfect mix, act with ur instincts, be spontanious, dont be afraid to love.

  6. #25
    ENFP - The Inspirers

    No, that doesn't necessarily means that she's leading you on. She will act that way nevertheless, no matter if she will say 'yes' or 'no' in the end. I do understand it's all very confusing (my God, I think I finally start seeing what I'm doing to people sometimes... ).

  7. #26
    ENFP - The Inspirers

    should we stop being over nice to guys?

    it seems to always backfire. they fall hard for us or they hurt us.

  8. #27
    ISTJ - The Duty Fulfillers

    I have fallen hard for her. Now Iam going to pay everytime she smiles at me.

    I should have seen it coming. Oh well, it's not the first time...and it probably won't be the last. Thank you both for explaining to me. At least I havn't been living off of false hope for too long.

  9. #28
    ENFP - The Inspirers

    Quote Originally Posted by starrynights View Post
    should we stop being over nice to guys?

    it seems to always backfire. they fall hard for us or they hurt us.
    Starry, sometimes I think we should just stop being nice in general.
    I have this problem with everybody, not only with guys.

  10. #29
    ENFP - The Inspirers

    Quote Originally Posted by NARCO View Post
    I have fallen hard for her. Now Iam going to pay everytime she smiles at me.

    I should have seen it coming. Oh well, it's not the first time...and it probably won't be the last. Thank you both for explaining to me. At least I havn't been living off of false hope for too long.
    for one thing u cant be entirely sure she is ENFP

    the other thing is, if i do love a guy. i wont be making the first move. id be as nice as i am and waiting to be charmed away.

    an ENFPs mind is easy to change. you almost always have a chance to charm her unless u have done something evil to her or so on that lines...

    she could be just distracted, busy, and thats why she isnt openly jumping up and down saying yes when u invite her out. you need to establish presence in her life. and even then u have to take care that she will be distracted sometime. i could be walking to the market and find a garden in the area, walk in , look at the trees, admire the bird sounds.. poof 2 hours go by.

    plz take our advice, as just getting to know the ENFP better. we cannot rule out her intentions.

  11. #30
    ISTJ - The Duty Fulfillers

    Quote Originally Posted by starrynights View Post
    for one thing u cant be entirely sure she is ENFP

    the other thing is, if i do love a guy. i wont be making the first move. id be as nice as i am and waiting to be charmed away.

    an ENFPs mind is easy to change. you almost always have a chance to charm her unless u have done something evil to her or so on that lines...

    she could be just distracted, busy, and thats why she isnt openly jumping up and down saying yes when u invite her out. you need to establish presence in her life. and even then u have to take care that she will be distracted sometime. i could be walking to the market and find a garden in the area, walk in , look at the trees, admire the bird sounds.. poof 2 hours go by.

    plz take our advice, as just getting to know the ENFP better. we cannot rule out her intentions.
    LOL something evil? Surely not from this SJ....

    What do you mean establish presence? How does one go about that when I barely get to see her?

    And yes, I realize you are the type that get's distracted easily. But how do you change an ENFP's mind? How is that easy?


     
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